Tammy B.

Obesity & Me

Describe your behavioral and emotional battle with weight control before learning about bariatric surgery.

I have been overweight since I was in the 5th grade! I always craved sweets, was an emotional eater, and often times found myself hiding food for later (my mother didn't keep sweets at home, but I found ways to get them). As an adult, I tried everything to lose weight. I eventually messed up my metabolism so bad that I couldn't lose weight. I actually GAINED 16 pounds when I went from regular Dr. Pepper to diet!!! I literally had stopped eating more than one meal a day and had replaced my meals with cola of one kind or another. If I understood my family Dr. correctly, I had started over producing insulin and my body burned the excess insulin for energy and stored all food that I ingested as fat! I literally was in a "no win" situation!

What was (is) the worst thing about being overweight?

The worst things about being overweight were: I couldn't ever wear a bikini bathing suit like my friends, I was picked last in sports events because I was fat, I had fewer dates than some of my friends who were thin, I was SO self deflating that my esteem was non-existent. When I married, I had very few dress choices to choose from because of my size. Sexy lingerie....forget it!!! The final blow to me was when I took my 12 year old to Six Flags and it took two people to fasten my safety belt! I was embarassed, and then scared that it would break before the ride was over! It was at that point that I knew I had to do something if I ever wanted to be able to love myself. I was SO depressed that even my family couldn't pull me out of it! But, not anymore!!!!

If you have had weight loss surgery already, what things do you most enjoy doing now that you weren't able to do before?

I can paint my own toenails!!!!! My husband always did a good job before, but it's wonderful to be able to do it myself! Such an insignificant thing, I know, but it means the world to me! I also can get down in the floor and know I can get up without making a spectacle of myself. What a blessing!

How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I started reading about Bariatric Surgery probably about 10 years ago. Then it was just stapling. A local Dr. here in Dallas started doing the surgeries and I inquired about it at least 4 times. When my Dr. recommended the surgery, I finally seriously requested information. It was at this time that I saw an ad for Bariatric Treatment Centers. What a God-send to find out there was one in my local area! I felt comfortable from the very start with BTC! I knew that they were in total understanding of the emotional and physical turmoil I was in. I felt like I had come home! Their office was actually set up with chairs that I could fit in without hanging over the sides, and everyone else in the waiting room was there for the same reason I was! For once, I didn't feel like I didn't belong! I will sing my praises for BTC for ever more! What a life changing, life saving experience it has been for me!

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

My hospital stay was wonderful...I actually didn't want to leave! The nurses were like family to me! I was there for four days and couldn't have been in better hands! I brought too much junk to the hospital! Other than a pair of pajama's for day three (an of course, underclothes), I didn't need anything! I was given a "goody bag" with toothbrush, lotion, chapstick, and various other necessities in it upon my arrival (so I actually didn't need to pack all the stuff I had). I brought a book to read, but found that if I wasn't up walking, then I was sleeping so I didn't read more than 10 or 20 pages! DO bring your pillow from home! It helped me feel a little more at home!

Describe your first few weeks home from the hospital. What should people expect from this period?

My first few weeks at home were pretty uncomfortable. I literally lived in the recliner in my living room! Besides being SORE, I was a little nauseous from the pain medications. I didn't find myself hungry or thirsty at this time, and it was a battle to make myself follow the recommended eating (or drinking) plan! I only got up to walk a little, or to use the ladies room. It was not a pleasant time, but....I'd do it again in a heartbeat!

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

We have a wonderful support group that meets the third Tuesday of every month! I am very happy to be part of this. It has been very helpful to be with others who are going through, or have gone through the same stages of weight loss that I am! We share stories, recipes, and just love and support each other. It's awesome!

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

My scar is about 8 inches long. It goes straight down the middle of my stomach. It was bright red at first, but has now started to turn a silvery white looking color. I am a redhead, so my skin is very, very light anyway. The scar is raised a little bit, but not enough to make me feel uncomfortable. I tease my family saying..."If I decided to wear a bikini, you better all look at this scar and tell me how beautiful it is!" The scar is worth every centimeter because of the way I feel now! I almost feel beautiful after losing the weight and my energy level is so great I can't believe I used to be confined to my living room!

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

I have actually been whistled at! It's been over 15 years since that's happend to me! I also don't feel like people stare at me when I go into restaurants anymore. I used to get the "Man, she's going to eat the whole all-u-can-eat bar" look! Now, I look like almost everyone else and I fit into the booth with LOTS of room to spare now!
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