How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I have a good friend who had the surgery. I was shocked when she told me that she was going to do it, but when I saw her 2 years later she looked fantastic. I began to research the surgery then.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

I had my surgery on Thursday and came home on Sunday. The staff at Centennial Hospital in Nashville was fantastic. The important things to take to the hospital include lip balm, feminine products, and most important, someone to stay with you.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

I got an infection in my incision 5 days post op. I immediately saw my surgeon. I had to pack the incision with gauze 3 times daily and let it heal from the inside out.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

I didn't feel any real anxiety, although watching TV made me crave many different foods. I honestly felt pretty lousy for about 5 weeks. At 6 weeks, I suddenly started feeling good. I had my surgery open and went back to work part time two weeks after surgery.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

I was a part of the support group at Centennial Hospital and helped start a support group in Clarksville, TN. I found the support from others who had surgery particularly important in the first 6 months after surgery.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

My scar is terrible!! I had my surgery open and got an infection 5 days post op. There is about a four inch section that is about an inch wide. I have been told that I will qualify for a scar revision.

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

I have had many plateaus. It is so important not to let that get you down. Try not to weigh yourself too often. Remember that sometimes when you aren't losing pounds, you are losing inches.

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

Absolutely!! I actually get hit on now! I think part of the reason that I am treated differently is because I feel better about myself, but I can honestly say that there are people who didn't give me the time of day before who are buddy buddy with me now.