How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

My boss had the surgery done. I was very skeptical and scared of such a drastic measure and felt sure I WOULD NEVER resort to something like surgery.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

My hospital stay was great. The nurses and assistants, were caring, professional and let me have my dignity. I stayed for 4 days. I think bringing your own shampoo, body soap, conditioner made me feel better. The hospital provided chap stick, deodorant, lotion, etc. Plus this wonderful contraption to help wipe yourself after using the bathroom (although I didnt figure out what it was till I left). I brought books and magazines and never looked at them. I used the tv as background noise and tried to sleep whenever I could. I looked forward to visitors. So if you are having the surgery close by, ask people to stop by, as long as they are supportive of your having the surgery.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

No I did not have any complications, so far. I am 3 months out from having surgery.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

I was scared. I was afraid I was making the worst mistake possible. What helped the most was talking to the admitting nurse on the phone, she was an angel, she helped talk me out of my fears and made me realize they were normal. By the morning of surgery I was calm and ready to go.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

Support is critical, the afterlife after surgery is a learning curve and like kids who fall when trying to walk for the first time, we have to get back up and keep going. I utilize my parents, brothers and my boyfriend as my immediate cheering group. I also attend Barix monthly support group located in my town. It helps to hear of others struggles and successes. I also am on a few online support groups.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

My scar goes from my breast bone to my belly button. I thought it would be smaller, but my liver was enlarged and the surgeon needed the room to do the surgery. I figure the scar is a small price to pay for ht eenergy and clothes getting bigger!!!

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

I have hit many plateaus since surgery. I am told that everyone is different, some lose very quickly and others lose more slowly. I guess I am the more slower one. I have lost 50lbs in 3 months. I of course wish it was more. But it helps to know that it is still coming off. I have the fear in the back of my mind, that this is just one more attempt for me to fail again. The mind is a powerful thing and can sabbatoge the best efforts. SO the support group and the doctors office words of encouragement help tremendously.

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

So far, people notice finally that I am losing weight, but I have not been treated differently, yet.