Lucy M.

Obesity & Me

Describe your behavioral and emotional battle with weight control before learning about bariatric surgery.

I was always trying different fad diets and all kinds of pills. I would sometimes find stuff that would work for a little while, only to find weeks later that the weight that I was so proud of losing was back and then some. Not only did my weight flucuate so did my emotional state. I had for the most part no self-esteem and the little that I would gain when I would lose a little weight would instantly deminish and thus make me feel extremly depressed.

What was (is) the worst thing about being overweight?

Well for me there were actual two things that tied for the worst. One was the excruciating pain in my knees and ankles. The pain was so bad that there were days that I could not walk and I was constantly limping. The other was (and still kind of is) the way I felt about myself. The joint pain is almost totally gone and I so much better about myself since the surgery.

If you have had weight loss surgery already, what things do you most enjoy doing now that you weren't able to do before?

I can basically do more active things without getting really tired. I can dance around with my nieces and nephew with more ease. It feels great!! I can't wait to lose more weight.

How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I had always heard about it on talk shows, but never thought much about it. It wasn't until I met a friend at work who had the procedure done and, I was able to see the result up close and personal, that I thought about having it done. I thought it was fantastic. I never thought about the scary parts about it I just thought if she could do it, I could to.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

I stayed 3 nights and 4 days. The hospital staff was helpful and friendly. The most inportant things to bring with you to the hospital would be some very loose fitting clothing to wear when you are release.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

I had no complications. However, the doctor was unable to remove my gallbladder due to too much fat around it. But, he said it looked really healthy. The only thing that really bothered me was the tube down my nose. It kept on getting clogged which in turn caused me to vomit. But other than that everything went great.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

It all happened so quickly. I was so excited! It wasn't until a few days before surgery that it really hit me about what I was going to do. I got somewhat depressed about it. I had so many mixed emotions. On one hand I was excited ,but on the other hand I was scared out of my mind. I just leaned on my husband for support and criied quite a bit. It's really helpful to at least have one great supportive person on your side to help you through everything.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

I'm not really into support groups as for as it being person to person. I would rather partipate on the internet which is how I got here. But a support group or some type of program is very helpful. I have found that no matter what I still continue to have many questions. It's helps to have some where to turn to. I visit this website as well as www.spotlighthealth.com

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

I had open surgery. So I have a six inch scare in my abdomin. But it is healing very well.

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

I'm seven weeks out and have not plateaued yet. But I'm sure when I have my first I will totally freak

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

Not really everyone has alway been really nice to me. I have a lot more people complimenting me on my weigh loss but that's because the majority of the people knew that I was having surgery. The only person that gave me additude was my older sister and that was because she was jealous. She finally admitted it and got over it.
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