andrea2051

  • BMI 25.0

Obesity & Me

Describe your behavioral and emotional battle with weight control before learning about bariatric surgery.

I had a terrible time with my weight. I basically dieted myself to my 300 lb. frame since I was 10 years old. My mom used to tell me about how fat I was and other family members would comment about my weight. It was depressed and my self esteem was very low. I got into a lot of trouble when I was a teenager because of my self esteem issues. I would do things and get high to numb myself from my depression. The worst thing was, my best friend was thin and pretty and guys paid attention to her and never to me. This really hurt.

What was (is) the worst thing about being overweight?

The worst thing was never getting attention from boys my age. When I did get attention, it was because they only wanted one thing. I would give in and that was was bad.

If you have had weight loss surgery already, what things do you most enjoy doing now that you weren't able to do before?

I can now wear bikini underware from Old Navy and look great in them and I love shopping in normal stores now, instead of the big and tall woman's stores. My energy level is at a new high and it's great. I am high on life instead of on alcohol.

How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I heard about some celebrities getting the Gastric Bypass surgery and I though that if I didn't do something drastic, I would end up being the 700 lb. woman on Dr. Phil.

Describe your experience with getting insurance approval for surgery. What advice, if any, do you have for other people in this stage?

My experience was fine with getting approved from my insurance company with both surgeries. My advice would be to have a primany insurance and if you are married, go under your spouse's insurance so that you have a secondary insurance company, in case your primary insurance doesn't approve you.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

My stay was good and the doctors at Shadyside was so helpful with the whole process. They got me up walking and they made sure that I was moving and they were encouraging all the way until I went home.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

No complications whatsoever.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

At first, I was like, "Oh boy, I am going to be thin now! Finally!" My husband had the surgery as well and he lost weight, but has never been at goal. Reality set in and I had to look at this as a tool and not as a guarentee. I wasn't nervous about the surgery, believe it or not. I had a ton of confidence in my doctors.

Describe your first few weeks home from the hospital. What should people expect from this period?

I had some pain, but it wasn't bad. The plastic surgery was more painful. I is hard to walk and you have give up some stuff that you normally do. The laundry won't get done by itself and you can't pick up heavy things and you have to let your partner pamper you and you realize that you have to let things go until you are better.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

I had my husband and the support of my family and friends.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

The scars after the gastric bypass surgery were minimal. There were 6 small incisions and they turn white after a while. Now with the breast lift, adominalplasty and trunk reconstruction, the incision is probably about 5' and it's very noticable, but they do try to be strategic with where they cut. It is a painful procedure, but it is all worth it in the end. I love my new body. WOOOHOOOOO!! Thank you Dr. Rubin. =)

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

My weight plateaued at 194 and then I went on Weight Watchers and lost the last 45.

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

Men look at me now. People don't even recognize me and I just think that it's funny.
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