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Obesity & Me

Describe your behavioral and emotional battle with weight control before learning about bariatric surgery.

I was in a constant battle. I felt disgusted with myself. Who could stand to look at me, it was hard for me to. I had trouble walking let alone trying to play with my eight and four year old. I have hated myself for so long I would only eat to make it worse. I hated for my husband to see me undress for the rolls of fat were hard for me to believe I was sexy. I cried alot for not having the courage or the strength to battle the fat.

What was (is) the worst thing about being overweight?

Other children making fun of me to my young children. Not fitting in rides with my children.

If you have had weight loss surgery already, what things do you most enjoy doing now that you weren't able to do before?

Run with my children. Go to the movies and fit in the seat.

How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I seen ads on the television. I could never afford that and would I be able to make the life change.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

My husband stayed with me. All but one nursed was wonderful and showed my husband how to care for me. I was there for three days. Support is the most important thing to bring!

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

No complications.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

Weak at first, Just a little pain for a few days. I had a hard time cleaning myself after using the bathroom but my husband was wonderful and took great care of me. I wrote in a journal when I needed to get something out. I talked to my husband and best friend. The first time I smelled food cooking and had no desire to eat, I couldn't believe it.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

I can't find one locally and can't drive the four hours each time to go to my doctors support group. I know a few people who have had the surgery and I talk to them often. I feel the support group is needed and Hate that I don't have better access to one.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

My scar is almost disappear.

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

I have had no plateau at this time. I am only five months into my losing.

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

Everyone is always saying how better I look. People at work will try and see ehat I am eating.
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