How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

My Nephrologist recommended it to me. He suggested it because I am doomed for dialysis and he said it would be easier on me without all the weight I am carrying.

What was your stay in the hospital like? How long where you there? What things are most important to bring?

I was in the hospital for 4 days (not counting surgery day). The staff at the hospital was not very attentive. They didn't really do much to help me at all. Bring lots of gowns and underwear and something to occupy your time. Since there is not much time "dining" you have a lot of extra time on your hands.

Did you have any complications from the surgery? If so, how did you deal with them?

Not so far. As of 4/3/03 I am six-weeks post-op and the only problem I am having is digesting some meats. I have had nothing for pain since they removed the drip three days post-op. I have started my exercise program with no problem and so far (knock, knock) I have only had on dumping.

In the weeks after you got your surgery date, how did you feel? How did you cope with any anxiety you might have felt?

The only anxiety I feel is impatients. I feel great and think I am totally well, but I find out differenly when I try to eat red meat or chicken. I can't wait for the day that I can tollerate them.

What aftercare support group/program do you have? How helpful/important is this?

I am not currently in a support group. I think they have one at GW, but I live pretty far away to go to them. I rely on the internet for information other than what is provided by my doctor. I would like to find one closer to my home.

What is your scar like? Is this what you expected?

My scar looks like Dr. Lin used a ruler to cut it. It is very straight and thin. There are hardly any ridges on it and they are going away as time passes. I think when it finally turns white it will hardly be noticeable.

Please describe any plateau experiences you have had since surgery.

I am having one right now. Dr. Lin told me I was not eating enough food. I never dreamed in my lifetime I would ever hear those words. He said I need to double my intake if possible for a couple of weeks and then cut back again. I am six weeks post-op and have lost 40 lbs. I seem to be stuck there for now, but hope it will pass soon. It's not easy to increase your intake when you get so full so quick.

Do you notice people treating you any differently now?

I find people are very supportive. I have not lost enough weight for people to treat me differenly because of that, but, I was never really treated bad or mocked before. Sometimes when I request a to-go box before I even begin to eat my meal, the wait staff will give me a funny look, but otherwise I find everyone is helpful and understanding.