How did you first find out about bariatric surgery and what were your initial impressions of it?

I have heard of it for years but was told I was not able to have it done. I recently moved and my new doctor asked me why I was against having it done. Told her I ws told it could not be done. She called the Brooks Army Medical docs who said they would see me and have said it canbe done. So I have started the process.

Describe your experience with getting insurance approval for surgery. What advice, if any, do you have for other people in this stage?

OMG this was so frustrating. I have Tri-Care due to my late husband's military service. While it is wonderful to be covered just trying to get through the military system can be daunting. My off base doctor said he could do surgery but had to be one kind and he reccommended the sleeve which was not covered. The sleeve had to be done at an on base hospital. The group at the Base finally figured out that I could change my level of coverage and be seen on base and be covered for necessary type of surgery. Keep asking questions and do not take no for an answer or settle for what is not in your best interest. There is usually someone with answers out there it just takes time to find them.

What was your first visit with your surgeon like? How can people get the most out of this meeting?

Meeting was with a group. I was a little intimidated but the doctor was very open and clear. He put me at ease quickly and then took time to answer all questions that everyone had and even spoke with family members about their concerns and their participation in the surgical process.

What made you finally decide to have the surgery?

Need! Pure and simple. I need this surgery. I need it for me to move forward and not loose precious time. I need it to help improve my health. I need it to help me finally beat the weight and have a better future. It will help with the diabetes and back problems but most of all it will help me to become part of my family again. Now they go without me because I cannot go but I tink that I will soon be able to start joining them. Slowly at first but at least going!

How did you decide which proceedure to have?

That was a joint decision with the doctors. I have many health issues and concerns. We talked at length about what would work fastest and then what would be best. Due to meds I am on we finally opted for the Sleeve so that major medication changes will not or should not be necessary.

What fears did you have about having complications or even dying from from the surgery, and what would you tell other people having the same fears now?

I was afraid but I can say that after much soul searching and prayer and speaking with doctors, family and friends I am not so much afraid of these things. However, I have made sure that they all know what I want in case of complications. I do not expect them but I am prepared if they happen. I feel comfortable turning this over to God and asking Him to guide my doctors and me in this endevor and I know He will.

How did your family and friends react to your decision? Would you have communicated anything differently if you could now? How supportive were they after your surgery?

Family and friends are very supportive and very encouraging. I hope to have surgery by end of July 2013 and everyone is willing to help.

How did your employer/supervisor react to your decision? What did you tell him/her? How long were you out of work?

I do not work outside any longer so this is not a concern.