Interesting question
Jeebus, that's a good question. I'll have to think on that. I suspect I probably would have answered something about the risks of having surgery (the actual surgery, not the post-op life). Hmmm.
Karen
Ontario Recipes Forum - http://www.obesityhelp.com/group/ontario_recipes/
Hi Lisa,
Interesting question. The first thought that popped into my head was that without surgery we wouldn't be losing the important absorptive area of the stomach/digestive tract. Therefore not making it critical that we need to take large doses of certain vitamins for the rest of our lives. Another benefit of not having surgery is not going through the risk factors associated with any surgery - for example - leaking, bleeding.
Interesting question. The first thought that popped into my head was that without surgery we wouldn't be losing the important absorptive area of the stomach/digestive tract. Therefore not making it critical that we need to take large doses of certain vitamins for the rest of our lives. Another benefit of not having surgery is not going through the risk factors associated with any surgery - for example - leaking, bleeding.
Uschi
For me it would have been not having to face the people that think I took the "easy way out". And in my own mind, admitting that I needed surgery meant I failed...and I know that it's not exactly true, but our heads talk to us and don't always tell us the truth, but that is how I felt when I first decided that I needed this "drastic" help. I felt like that meant I failed, and couldn't do it on my own. Obviously I have come to grips with that, at least to some degree...and if nothing else at 108.8 less I am a VERY happy "failure" LOL.
Well, the anxiety about how I'm going to cope with the post-op complications is driving me around the bend right now (10 days pre-op).
So I probably would've mentioned my fear of the malabsroption issues, and how (should I back out last minute) my fears would be assuaged.
That having been said, I would have probably added that my psychological cop-out would have only perpetuated my lifelong despair over my food compulsion ... and would have ended up being self-destructive in the long run.
Does that make sense?