Non-food cravings after VSG
So I just wanted to touch base on this topic. I'm 7 weeks post-op. Since surgery I have been hit with multiple high stress situations all at once. I noticed that instead of craving food I found myself wanting a cigarette (I quit smoking several years ago) and wanting to drink (I have never been a big drinker). So this brought to my attention that this is where cross-addictions can happen. I am happy to say that I acknowledged my weird cravings, but then had a little self talk about why I was having these cravings and then made up my mind to go to the gym and work through them, literally. I can see where my relationship with food would have come in. This is just a reminder for those who used to be emotional eaters. We need to find an acceptable outlet to fulfill this craving. I have actually sat down and made a list of things I can do when I get these feelings. One of them is to come here or my other support group and tell people about it. I know there are others that are dealing with the same thing. This will help me stay accountable. Identify, acknowledge and defeat these feelings! Does anyone else have a plan of what to do when they get these feelings?
What an important post! It sounds like you really understand what is going on with you and yes, cross-addiction is a very common thing. What I have found that helps me, is to identify the feelings, work through them, and then do something else. It is not enough to just recognize what is happening, you need a new way of dealing with it. Something with verbs in it. Going to the gym is perfect. Sometimes I found that I am stressed because I am not willing to face a confrontation. Sometimes I am stressed because I have been procrastination doing something unpleasant. Sometimes I just need to go for a run. You have this, and I can't tell you how happy I am for you that you got this from from the start.
Thanks for this post! I know I'm an emotional eater and I've been thinking a lot about how I will handle these things post-op. I've been making a plan and trying to be conscientious about my current choices and how they translate to my post-op life. I think I'm going to write them down as you suggest so I'm clear when that moment comes. Great idea.
Elisa