Rude, lewd and crude!
Men and women communicate differently. A woman knows how to tiptoe and word things better. Most men are clueless about the sensitivities and don't have tact, and such and just speak openly. To me, I believe he was not judging your NEED for better boobs but rather his focus was on getting the most you could from the surgery/insurance/ opportunity.
Some people are real pigs! I'm so sorry you had to endure that. From your picture you are a very pretty woman just like you are. Some men spend to much time looking at porn and think all woman should have fake boobs and fake everything like what they see on their t.v. or laptop. My Wife always says she loved Farrah Fossett because she refused facelifts, boob jobs and all that and just aged naturally. You have had WLS and need some cosmetics which is natural. I'm sure you will be Beautiful when you are through. Good luck and ignore the pigs!
Some men have no idea who women are, they would consider it a relationship if pictures in magazines could speak and tell them they are wonderful. Really sad to see some value nothing but a set aesthetic. God luck to him and all of his loneliness and insecurity, and cheers to the real men!