In need of moral support - 6 months out and stalled!
on 10/31/14 1:22 am
None of my friends or family can add anything more than "I can't believe you are complaining, look how much you've lost so quickly". I don't need to hear that.
The month of September I lost 7 lbs- this was the first month since my VSG in April I lost less than 10 lbs in a month. In October, I've only lost 3.2lbs. I'm really frustrated
I had my VSG on 4/14/14, and I weighed 253 ( I was 270 when I started pre-op 4 week diet on 3/14). I am 6.5 months out and weight 184. Don't get me wrong, in my head I know this is a lot of weight to lose in that amount of time. However, I see others on the site still losing 10 and 12 lbs per month even after 6 months out.
I'm scared to death that this is it - my body is where it's going to stay. I'm not ok with that. I've stayed on plan the whole time-with a tiny lapse here and there but I'm talking maybe 2% of the time a bite of this or that. Nothing on the regular. I get at least 85g protein, less than 45-50g carbs, at least 70 oz water, and at least 4 days of exercise.
I guess I'm just looking for encouragement that it's not over and I will get through this and have better months by anyone who has been in this predicament. Thanks in advance to all who take the time to respond to me:)
I will encourage you -- your weight loss is NOT over, you WILL get through this. But I won't lie to you and say that you may start losing up to 10 lbs. a month again because that's just not reality. Not mine (look at my ticker) and not a lot of people....not at 6 months out.
The truth is this: as you get lighter and closer to goal, you will lose less and less each month. But that amount of weight may actually represent a larger percentage of your overall weight. It's about PERCENTAGES not POUNDS lost.
One suggestion I have for you is to up your water intake. You should be doing a minimum of 80 oz. per day and shooting for 100 oz. on the days you exercise. Also, cut the carbs to 30-40 rather than 45-50. It works...
Stalls happen. It'll pass! Stick to your plan and you'll get there. :)
I'm 7.5 months out and I feel like I've been stalled all of October. But, whatever, I'll reach my goal slowly just the same as if I reach it swiftly. Reaching it is the important part.
VSG with Dr. Salameh - 3/13/2014
Diagnosed with Binge Eating Disorder and started Vyvanse - 7/22/2016
Reconstructive Surgeries with Dr. Michaels - 6/5/2017 (LBL & brachioplasty), 8/14/2017 (UBL & mastopexy), 11/6/2017 (medial leg lift)
Age 42 Height 5'4" HW 319 (1/3/2014) SW 293 (3/13/2014) CW 149 (7/16/2017)
Next Goal 145 - normal BMI | Total Weight Lost 170
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The weight loss will slow. Just keep working it and it all adds up. Every pound now is noticeable. My losses are about 6 / month now. It seems slow but it is good. And I only lose one week a month....right around my period...