My husband and I are desperately seeking to adopt a baby or find an honest, stable woman who would be willing to carry a child for us.  We are a laid back couple that enjoy spending time with family.  We are willing to negotiate expenses and compensation.  Truly we have so much patience and understanding to offer this baby and the mother.  Please contact us.  We are not judgemental people.

Thank you.

R

I know this is an old post but hope someone else will read it and be helped.  If you are an adoptee or birth family member searching register for free at www.gsadoptionregistry.com.  The next thing to do is to contact the adoption agency or state of birth vital statistics office and request the non-identifying information.  This information must legally be given to the adoptee.  It gives you age, education and medical information but it will assist the 'search angel' ing helping you with your search.  NEVER, EVER, pay for information.  There are so many ways of getting information that search angels know that there is never a reason to pay for it.

Hello, Looking for serious individuals to adopt my baby. I am currently 13 weeks, considering abortion,it's a hard decision, but thought I'd give this a chance and see the response. About me I am mixed Guyanese, and the father is East Indian. 25 no health issues and currently in University. I don't drink , smoke , am vegetarian and workout regularly. I just registered and I was going through the posts and realize that a lot of people are scamming people etc.... All I can say is you can reply to me in this thread if you do not wish to email me directly. [email protected] I am a Canadian citizen and am going to school in the US New York to be precise. I am not here to scam people but am looking for another avenue besides abortion. I can even give you the information of the clinic that I go to ...in other words I am an open book. Unlike others I can contact your lawyer, give you my number and work number if it helps. I am not here for jokes but seriously looking for a good couple who will love my baby and hopefully I will feel like I have done the right thing.

Sounds like you already have the right words to say... they are all in your post. Why you didn't share this with her when she was younger and why you are sharing with her now and how you don't know if it was the right decision to not tell her earlier but that was the decision you made. She'll I'm sure be shocked, maybe a little angry, excited and it may take a while for it to all sink in. Remember you've had 20 years so give her some time to absorb it. Don't force a meeting between the two if your daughter doesn't want it. Let her decide. Best wishes to you! ~Michelle