NOT REALLY INTERESTED ( forgive me )

I think quutgrrl is about to morph into meeoww5..... in 3...2....1.

Tolling for the aching whose wounds cannot be nursed
For the countless confused, accused, misused, strung-out ones an' worse
An' for every hung-up person in the whole wide universe
An' we gazed upon the chimes of freedom flashing

No one is using you or abusing you & if you think jealousy is a huge part of the interaction here perhaps you're the jealous one.

I am 14 years out from my WLS. I've been on OH the whole time, and I have seen you come and go so many times with so many different names and profiles and stories. You think that if you leave for long enough, you'll come back to all new people who don't remember you from before. Well, that hasn't happened yet. We remember you, and I can assure you that no one is jealous of you. Why would they be? You're pushing 50 but pretend to be 20 years old and glamorous like that means anything. Aging is natural, and I'm proud of every year I've been given. You live in a fantasy world of your own drunk creation, and you insult people based on their size and appearance. I'm sure we can drag up some of your old posts to refresh your memory. Go get the help you need. Jealousy is not an emotion that comes to mind when I think of you. Pity is what I have for you.

WINNER!

Go away Troll.

Me? A troll. Nope. I'm a real person who has been here for the long haul of my WLS journey. I keep it real and don't sugar coat anything, but if you want to call me a troll that's your business. I will not name call back. I'm genuinely concerned about you given your recent postings. I really do hope you get yourself all sorted out one day and find true genuine happiness. I don't wish anything bad on anybody no matter their behavior, and I especially don't wish anything bad on anyone who seems to be struggling like you seem to be. Best of luck to you, Ava.

When you constantly have to point out your greatness, then perhaps its time to step back and ask yourself why others can't notice it organically?

Things I am jealous of:

Tina Turner's legs

Stephen King's writing ability

Mae West's insouciance

Not you.