I'm so glad to hear from both of you. I don't know if I'm exactly in your boat, yet, but I'm going through the same situation as the second person. I had a mammogram for the surgery, and now they are having to do a biopsy this Wednesday Morning. My surgery was scheduled for 5 days later. I just found out Friday, so I'm not really freaking , per se, but really concerned...and anxious. I'm going to see if I can re-schedule my surgery for the 14th, that way if the test results come back negative, I can go ahead with the surgery, and if it comes back positive, I guess I just cancel it? But, I'm overweight, and I thought that you had a better chance of beating cancer if you were within 'acceptable' weight guidelines? I'm not asking you, I guess I'm just thinking out loud. Thanks for all your friendship.