Hi all. Had another appt with my NP yesterday. Talked again about WLS. Given my anxiety and indecisiveness we concluded together that it's not the right time for me. This am I got the call from HRRH for orientation. Talked to them for a bit. Decided to cancel my referral. If and when I am ever ready for WLS all I have to do is be referred again. I really didn't want to waste anyones time or resources!

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Regardless of my decision, I am still committed to change!
Wishing all of you courages folks well on your journey!

I understand your indecision.  This is not to be taken lightly.  However, maybe if you had more information at the orientation it might sway you definately one way or the other.....

Just a thought...

Good Luck with whatever you chose.

Ann

I am probably physically ready. But definitely not mentally or spiritually prepared!
Going to keep working on the head stuff!

its not for everyone that is for sure... you have to be really ready, willing and ABLE to get past the hurdles.

If and when you are ready again... you know what you need to do and you know there will be support.

Hi Deb,

This is tthe right decision for you at this time.  You need to be ready physically, and mentally for this journey.  When it was first suggested to me, I wasn't sure I was ready, several months later, I was and I started the journey then.  This may have caused me to wait longer, but it was the decision that I needed to make when I was ready.

You have done well on your own already, you can commit to that.  And when you are mentally ready, you can do this.

Either way, you are always welcome here.  This site isn't just for surgery, we'll support you either way in your journey.

Cathy

I hope you achieve the change you are looking for!

 Good for you for realizing your not ready !!! That is almost as hard as making the decision. I know 4 ppl that have had a successful surgery (friends and co-workers) and I thought they were all crazy. I said no way, I dont have the dedication or the strength. But, after much time and research, I have decided its right for me. And I have yet to even attend the first info session. However, I am feel like I am prepared, we will see. But kudos to you, being true to yourself is equally as important. 

Good Luck Deb!

 I think it's great you've realised you aren't ready prior to going any further with this.. you definitely have to be in the right frame of mind to tackle this! I can relate to how you are feeling, as I too was very anxious about making this decision.. It's a major lifestyle change, and I do wish I had taken a bit more time to mentally prepare myself for the obstacles that you face post op. I'm sure when you do make the decision to proceed with the surgery, you will be very successful!

I wish you the best of luck for whatever decision you decide to make in the future! And congrats on the weight loss you've achieved to date on your own! You should be proud of yourself for that :) 

i wish you had kept going in the process. you have so much time to change your mind, more information might help you!

I feel my NP and I came to right decision. I just got over some surgical complications from what was considered a minor procedure. Just getting on my feet after 6 months of medical intervention and antibiotics. I just need some more healing time! I have read a few WLS books, shared about it. Just don't think I have the stamina for it. And honestly dont want to give up diet pop, caffiene and alcohol for the long haul. I would probably get myself into big trouble by not following the "rules". and that's the truth!

i get that, Deb, i do. The long term changes are difficult. Carbs get me every time!!

best of luck. If you ever need to talk, drop me a line.