need a kick in the backside

Solio
on 5/1/12 8:02 am - China
 i MUST start exercising!  I've been doing pretty well on the weight loss front, but I'm not exercising.  I have the time, I have some exercise programs and I have the correct equipment in my apartment.  

I have some kind of mental block about exercising.  Once I start working out, I usually enjoy it.  I just can't get myself to start!  I'm getting frustrated, but that frustration isn't leading me to do anything.  So I'm turning to you guys.

How can I get over this mental block?  What kind of incentives or goals work for you guys?  I'm so frustrated, but I'm not DOING anything about it.  How do I get over this inaction.  How do I "just do it"?  Rawr!  

Looking for some tough love here if anyone has some advice.  thanks!
 
                  
A. C
on 5/1/12 8:17 am
i am very new to exercising, but here is what works for me, especially with things i a) don't want to do and/or b) feel stuck around, or unable to do..

prayer - positive thoughts - building a routine (crucial for me on everything, to be honest) - and building in accountability.

i know that all sounds hokey, but it's just my 2 cents

good luck, you can do this!
    
HW: 376   SW: 354  
        
Solio
on 5/1/12 3:01 pm - China
 the routine and accountability part are two things I am desperately lacking.  I'm not sure how to go about being accountable.  I think I will try to get a friend or family member to help me with that.  The routine part is so crucial.  I need to just do it!  

Thanks for your advice!
 
                  
Dee.spunk
on 5/1/12 8:52 am - Sacramento, CA
Just do it! Really. Some days I don't want to so I start, kinda half assed, but by the time I warm up I'm giving it my all!

Height:5'1.5 RNY:11/30/11 HW:307 SW:234 CW:136 GW:140 (LOST 73 Lbs. PRE-OP)

 


 

Solio
on 5/1/12 8:59 am - China
 Thanks guys!  I just kind of want to sit and wallow.  That's exactly what I shouldn't be doing.  Just need to stop being a whiney brat and do it!  
 
                  
Oxford Comma Hag
on 5/1/12 9:03 am
Solio, I've been thinking about you. How's the application process going?

Okay, I struggle with this myself, but for different reasons. Are you a person who keeps lists and writes things down that you have to do? If so, write it into your daily schedule.

Is there a time of day that you find yourself at a loose end? That might be a good time.

If you're a morning person, do it first thing in the morning.

I prefer to do it in the evening because my mornings are usually me running around trying to get everyone out the door.

At the least, wear a pedometer so you can get an idea of how much you move in a day.
lillypond...
on 5/1/12 11:11 am
I exercise 6 days a week, and that is that-- I may not feel like it but I do it anyway-- after a while I miss it if I don't do it== never thought I would say that about exercising-- I do 30 minutes in the morning and 30 in the evening'' In August I will be 2 years, I am on maintenance now, I have lost 185 pounds and I have keep it off, and I own it to exercising.. so just do it allow yourself no gray area  It does a body good :)
Solio
on 5/1/12 2:57 pm - China
 that's the attitude I need to develop.  I haven't quite gotten there yet, hopefully I will.

Congratulations on your amazing success!  I hope I can claim the same track record at 2 years!  Thanks for your support!
 
                  
Solio
on 5/1/12 2:51 pm - China
 hey you!

so i finished the application, but I don't think my odds of getting it are particularly high.  So, I've added on 2 more part time jobs.  I WILL make this work, scholarshi*****!  So now I have little to no free time, but I function better that way.  

I just need to stop being a brat and just DO it.  I was feeling whiny this morning so I posted.  I've been super busy as of late and exercise always comes last.  

I do move around quite a bit during the day.  Losing weight has given me a completely unexpected bonus in that I take public transport now.  I used to take taxis everywhere.  Not only was that more expensive, but I didn't have to walk nearly at all.  Now I take the bus or the sky train everywhere.  I never thought about it, but I figure I was just too ashamed of how I looked to handle public transportation.  It was never a conscious thought, but once I started losing weight, it just seemed natural to take the bus!  It's strange the things you don't do because of size!
 
                  
brenlee1965
on 5/1/12 11:37 am - New Berlin, NY
I wish you the very best on getting started on the exercising habit. Maybe try to get a friend to walk with you and if walking correctly, you should be able to talk (GIRL time or guy time; depending on your friend).I wish my closest sister lives closer to my place or I to her; because she's getting ready for the lapband and I am doing RNY; we could walk together. We live 50 miles apart. I may start walking with my friends at work on lunch for 30 min; since we have an hour for lunch. Gotta make time for the new you (the healthier you) YOU CAN DO IT!!!!!
 Bren                
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