1 year out
Well it’s been a year since I had my surgery. It has been a year of ups and downs for me, as I have had to learn to live without my crutch. I have found out many things about myself over this last year. I have learned that I did use food to both push people away and bond with people. I used it as a layer of protection to protect myself from being hurt by noting people worth by determining if they prejudged me based on my appearance. I have found out that I was so wrong; I was so busy judging myself and being worried about what they thought of me that I did not give them a chance to get to know me. I used to find heavy friends and bond with them over meals and foods that we enjoy together. I never thought that I used food as an emotional crutch, boy was I wrong. When your crutch is no longer there then you realize how much you depended on it. I have found other outlets to channel my frustration and emotions. I now enjoy reading and getting lost in the story, instead of watching TV and eating. I have had many ups during this journey by loosing weight and gaining confidence. I have also seen the downside of loosing the weight; I have lost some of my larger friends, as they no longer feel comfortable around me. I know that this is there issue yet it still hurts. If your just starting your journey knows that there will be many many ups and down, this process is a journey that will last a lifetime, but the ups outweigh the downs in the end. Good luck in your journey. My journey doesn’t end here, I still have about 30-40 lbs left to loose but slow and steady will win the race on my end.
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HW: 375 SW: 342 GW: 140 HT: 5'7"