Feeling bitter and angry...
VSG on 11/21/12
Just wanted to say how impressed I am that you quit smoking! You rock!!
I'm so sorry that you're dealing with this, and I hope it turns out well.
Another option might be to have the RA doc call your surgeon and explain about the fluid retention, you would be amazed how little one doc knows about another one's specialty. The nurse may think you are just trying to put one over on them, nurses aren't the be all end all for the surgery, your surgeon has the final say and can ok it even if the nurse says no. That would be especially true if your RA doc has explained the reason for the rapid weight gain. Don't just let them walk on you stand up and be the squeeky wheel!