New. Job...and fat jokes!

So, here's the one I haven't been able to figure out, yet.  I do work in the same place I did as a heavy person (18 years, in fact at 300+++pounds, give and take).  Never, in all that time did I hear a "fat" joke, aimed at me or anyone, for that matter.  Now,  I'm hearing them!  Being told them as if I would find them funny!  It's as if, at a normal weight, Iv'e been invited into the inner sanctum and given permission to share in the hilarity of fat bashing!  What is wrong with these people? 

this is so true. my thin brother was trying to explain to me the attitude some people have about fat people - like i didn't totally know that.  no one says it to you directly but you get the vibes and you hear about it.  what is wrong is they are jerks.  diane

Good for you for having the courage to speak out against this deep seated problem. I refuse to watch that horrible Bill Maher show anymore because he cannot forgo a Chris Christie fat joke for a single episode. 

Good for you for saying something!

good for you for setting them straight. losing a bunch of weight is very empowering.  somehow i feel more able to be assertive even in situations that have nothing to do with food or weight.  we all hold our heads a little higher and its a good thing.  diane

I find it amazing the stupidity of people who show their prejudices to people they barely know.  Especially in a work environment where the consequences can be devastating to their career.  When will people learn that at work...EVERYTHING is off limits.  Be professional!

Good for you for putting them in their place!

Thank you for standing up. Obviously it's up to you, but nothing wrong with documentation. Pre-op I find my self justifying others 'fat jokes' and others 'treatment of me' as my own issues...i.e. how I carry myself, my confidence, etc... 

Working with my counselor to realize that self blame is not helpful, nor an excuse for others to judge or discriminate. 

Good luck on your journey!