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Surgeon Testimonial

Jon L. Schram, M.D., F.A.C.S.
I really liked him. Down to earth, great sense of humor and seemed very comfortable and knowledgeable. Explained everything very well.
His staff were very friendly and respectful. Also very knowledgeable.
Other patients should know he takes his time to explain and answer all questions. Knows you'll have more and makes himself available to answer those as well.
He addressed the risks by admitting there could be some, giving national stats, then his own personal stats. He seems confident.
I'd rate him a 10/10
Both surgical competence and bedside manner both seem great.
I have nothing bad to say about the clinic, the staff or the surgeon. Perhaps in time I'll find something to find fault with, but so far so good.

Now I'm post op and I still have nothing bad to say. Dr Shram was great. He prayed with me before surgery and I told him I needed him to help me keep a promise to my baby girl and he understood how I felt and he did indeed help me keep my promise. The staff were amazing. Answered every question I had, came right away when I called for them and took all my concerns seriously. They were very pleasant and caring.
I honestly have nothing negative to say at all.

Oh, I must tell you about Aster. He's the funniest guy. He was my pre-op nurse. He made me feel so comfortable that I was truely not nervous at all. Thanks Aster.
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  • Books & Literature - Love reading romance novels
  • Bingo - I'm addicted to bingo.
  • North American - Canadian and proud of it. Mix in french Canadian, Irish and native Amarican
  • English - I also understand french but can't speak it anymore :(
  • Hockey - love hockey. Can't play but love watching my kids and the Detroit Red Wings.
  • Married - Married 10, together 20 and forever.
  • Rock - Bon Jovi is my fav, love 80s and today's rock
  • Metal - Love Metallica, 80s metal and today's heavy stuff.
  • Paranormal Research and Investigations - I believe.
  • WLS in your 30's - Soon be 37. Ah, I mean I'm 22, I'll be 23 on my next b-day LOL

Latest Surgery Support Comments

  • Comment by Darlene E. on 11/12/08 2:30 pm
    Hi everyone. I just wanted to thank you all for the good wishes. They seem to be doing me a world of good. I'm now on the losers bench and doing quite well. Thanks again. Hugs, Darlene.
  • Comment by CuteGal1974 on 11/12/08 6:02 am
    Glad to hear that all went well with your WLS!!! Welcome to the Loser's Bench!!! Remember to sip, sip, sip & walk, walk, walk!!!
  • Comment by kookiez on 11/11/08 2:00 pm
    All the best to you with your surgery and a speedy recovery hugs Kookie
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This is the story of my journey into the world of Weight Loss Surgery. From the decision to have it and beyond. I hope to log my ups and downs and the physical and emotional changes that take place along the way.
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Darlene's Journey
My blog about my weight loss surgery


One Week Out.
4 days ago
Well, I'm doing really well. I still feel pulling when I stand up and I lose my breath easily.
I'm not really in any pain and everything is moving now.
I still have a problem sleeping. For some reason I just don't feel tire... the kind of tire that makes you sleep, not to be confused with tiring easily LOL. I still do tire easily when I stand in one spot. I'd actually rather keep moving.

The nutritionist from the clinic  called this afternoon to see how I was doing.  I'm pretty much getting all my fluids and I'm really close to reaching my protein goals.  She's pretty happy with that.  I'll tell ya thought, drinking all that is a full time job.
She said purees are easier but I still need 64oz of fluids. Ha, how can that be easier.


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Home Day 2.
7 days ago
Today is a good day so far. I've been up and sorting laundry. I must admit, I didn't want to do it, but my hubby is getting a cleaning crew in here to clean and I didn't want them getting near my laundry so I sorted myself. Dan's doing the lifting I'm just doing the sorting and running the machines.  I find it took quite a lot out of me.
Now I'm just resting and drinking my fluids. I have a big mug the clinic gave me. I'll get my fluids in if I drink 2 mugs, so I have one going with water and I'm also working on a 28 liquid oz can of veggie soup which I added a scoop of protein to bulk it up. I'm trying to think of what I can have now. I'm already getting bored.


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I'm home
on November 13, 2008 1:11 pm
I've been trying to write this post all day. Seems every time I start, I get distracted then get to tired.
So here we go one more time.
I had my RNY on Monday, November 10 at about 1pm. I returned to my room about 4.  I remember whining my belly hurt, and it did, but I was so out of it that I just don't remember. 
My friend Kim was there with me, and I had a special visitor, our very own Sheila, or MaTrix. 
I was awake about every half hour. I just couldn't sleep... Not that I was in pain, but every half hour I slept felt like 4 hours.  The nurses came in about every 2 hours to work with me on my breathing exercises. That was a pain in the butt.  I would get up as often as I could and walk around the floor.  They wanted me to walk, but I did it often enough on my own that they never asked me to walk.
On Tuesday, I went down and had an xray to see if I had a leak. They told me they didn't think I did even before the xray because I'd be in so much pain if I had. I had to wait 5 hours for the doctor to read the results. Then I was given a prevacid which made me feel nauseous and my first food try which didn't sit well either. 
My blood pressure rose quite high and I needed meds to bring it down. My face was beet red and bloated.  I gained 14 pounds overnight from all the liquid they pumped in me. 
Yesterday I was doing good. I was up, they took out my IV and I was able to shower and dress in my own clothes. I waited for my ride then I was off to home.
Last night I was good, glad to be home.
Today I'm feeling even better although my muscles feel a bit tender. After all they did cut into them so it's to be expected.

Everything turned out good., The pain wasn't as bad as what I'd had imagined and if the results are what I expect, I'd do  it again in a heartbeat.


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Night before surgery.
on November 9, 2008 3:21 pm
Well, it's here.  Tomorrow morning is my surgery. I'm more excited then I am nervous.  I know everything will be ok.

I've been on clear fluids all day and and I'm starving.  We stopped at Dairy Queen on our way home from the tournament, and that's really when I realzed that this is it, my eating days are now over. OVER! 
I looked at the menu and so wanted everything on it.  So I guess I'm in morning over the food.

By this time tomorrow, it'll be all over.
Can't wait to report back with all the news.
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Off To Son's Hockey Tournament.
on November 7, 2008 7:28 am
I leave in an hour or so to Grand Bend where my son Reilly will be playing in a hockey tournament. 
I'll be back on Sunday. The same Sunday I'll be drinking clear fluids only.
Then Monday morning I'm off to surgery.


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My Story

I've been big all my life, or at least as long as I can remember.  I think around age 8 I started to get chunky. From there my weight just went up and up.
I was always picked last for teams at school, and many of the other children made fun of me. Mostly I felt like an outsider and my self esteem was zero.
I went to a catholic high school and had to wear a uniform. I was so large that mine had to be specially made.  It look a bit different then the others and once again I felt like I stood out.
I never had much of a social life.  Boys didn't come calling on my door.
By grade 11 I was up to 200lbs.
During the summer between grades 11 and 12,  I had lost 20lbs and met my husband.
It didn't take long for me to gain that weight back.
I held steady there till I was 19 and had my first daughter.  I gained 65 lbs for her.
Four years later I had my son and gained 45 for him bringing my weight up to 310 lbs.
I joined an over eating support group and managed to lose 104 lbs in about 10 months but like all other weight loss attempts, it didn't last.
I got pregnant with my last child and gained 85 lbs bringing me up once again to around 300 lbs.  That was 10 years ago.
I've tried many things to lose weight over the years, but nothing has worked long term.
My last attempt began in July of 2006.   I lost a total of 90 lbs by Feb 2007, then that was the end of that.
By Christmas I had gained all but 5 lbs.
Today I weigh in at 321 lbs.   I know I can't keep this weight on and expect to live a happy healthy and long life.
That is why I'm turning to WLS as a last resort.   I need this tool to help me get this weight off and live healthy.   I need the chance  to start over at a healthy weight.
I know the sacrifices I will have to make and I'm willing to make them.  I know with the surgery I will be forced to live a better lifestyle.  There is no cheating. 
I also know once the weight is off, it will be entirely up to me to keep it off.   I want that chance.
I don't want my kids to have to deal with having a fat mom anymore.  As hard as it was for me to be a fat kid, they have to endure the same type of teasing because of me.  They don't deserve that. Only I can change it, but I need help to do it.

That's my story.

 


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