The Continued Bathing Suit Dilemma

Jun 03, 2011

So I'm frustrated with myself.

I want to learn to be comfortable in my new body, I really do, that's why I bought bikinis. But my belly is wrinkled, it's loose and it's saggy.

DH doesn't think it's that bad.

I am smart enough to appreciate that it's no longer filled with fat.

But that little girl really shook my confidence.

Was wondering if I should buy a one piece for evening swimming. After all the point of the bikinis was to work on my tan. There's not enough sun to help with that in the evenings. Should I cave and buy a one piece to ease my comfort level? Or should i force myself into accepting my new body, flaws and all and NOT buy one? 

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