Janine J.
Recent Revelations
Dec 05, 2009
I have been gone for many months from OH and happily I might add. Over the months I have been gone, I have heard from many people who have wondered where I went to and also people who have been kind enough and concerned about my feeling of people who have trashed me here.I am really not suprised at the cruelty of Rhonda and her entourage and the cruelty that they have displayed to others. It is really a shame that they feel they can feel superior to others. Extremely sad in fact.
I have heard the lies and rumors that have been spread by Rhonda about me. It is her perspective about me being controlling and angered easily. I think when someone says things like this it is characteristics they see in the themselves and subconsciously do not like about themself too.
I also want to set the record straight if any of you read this. I do not smoke pot and pop pills like the rumors have been said about me. The most vicious of all rumors was when I was up in San Francisco with Rhonda her telling people that my friend Greg and I had sex. I am faithful to my husband and I certainly do not go around sleeping with other men and especially not GAY men.
In my opinion, Rhonda shut me out and spread these rumors because she was not the center of attention that weekend even though she depserately wanted to be in my world. That is okay because I know Rhonda has the desire to be in the center always. It is quite evident. I am okay with this. Always was.
What I am not okay with is how The Rhonda Gang has hurt people including me. I am not okay that Rhonda called the police on me stating I hacked her computer. Sorry but I am such a techno tard I would not know where to begin. Her doing this was downright malicious and mean and caused me severe stress and embarrassment. I hope that made you feel really like a big woman and bad ass Rhonda. Just sick if you ask me.
Oh and did I mention that I was even spied on on Facebook. They actually took time to see who I was talking with in Facebook. Now is that childish or what? Who in their right mind has time for that? And might I add...for what reason...because I am a supposed hacker? Give me a break!
I am not okay with how others who really do not even know me came out swinging and how those who I had disagreements or who I called on their stuff really came out swinging. What was particularly hurtful was Diane's treatment whom I have never had a problem with and considered my friend. She and her husband had been to my house a number of times and we had to hers. She turned on me like no tomorrow and for no reason other than most likely believe all the lies Rhonda spewed about me. Very hurtful Diane. I considered you a friend for sure. I don't know what happened to you other than being in some transe or something...downright unbelievable. I thought you were a stronger, indepented thinker than that. Ironically, I was the one who encouraged you to give Rhonda another chance because you were so mad at her for your preception of her trying to pick up on Doug.
I have heard from so many people who cannot stand the boards anymore because of what it has become...a ME ME ME place. They say how unsupportive it is there any longer and when new people come out on the boards they have been attacked because oh let me see...Stephanie still thinks it is me coming here in disguise.
I have no use for these boards or the cruel people who frequent these boards.
I said I would never come back here and the only reason I did is because I was looking for some photo's because my computer was destroyed by Rhonda being a bull in a china shop when rearranging my closests which for the record I did appreciate. I had hoped to find some of the photo's of my grandchildren that were lost forever...six months of them because I did not have my computer backed up and the hard drive could not be recovered. Did I come out swinging on the boards at Rhonda for this...no even though I knew it was her fault. Did she apologize or take any responsibily? NO!
I felt like making these comments on my profile blog for the people who still do visit my profile and have left me messages. I want people to know if you don't know me or have only heard of me....I am not the MONSTER that Rhonda has portrayed and I never was. I was/am the same person I was on the boards in person and if people say I gossiped...hello everyone does it is human nature. Tell me exactly what Rhonda and her entourage are all doing? Gossiping and acting like they are holy than thou with their secret club...yes I know all about it girls.
Actually I am glad you have your little club so you all can be disfunctional together because maybe you will leave the newbies and other people alone who you have hurt and blocked. They didn't deserve the treatment you showed them.
Now if you want to sling it at me...sobeit...I do not have time for you or the boards and your childish behavior.
These are my opinions and thoughts and I just want to say thank you to the people who still choose to be in my life and not pass judgement as if you were The Father, Son and Holy Ghost. I just know I am thankful to lift this burden off my chest and just type it out here so I can finally let it go and let all the cruel people here go. So thank you, thank you...you all did me a favor that I do not have to participate in your lies and viciousness.
Best of wishes to everyone in the holiday season and beyond.
Janine
Oh yeah PS...Rhonda you come out slinging at me on the boards or anywhere else....I will take legal action against you.
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About Me
The Beautiful Desert, CA
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Surgery
07/10/2002
Surgery Date
Nov 26, 2005
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