Venting flustrations...

Jan 27, 2010

My brother in law had back surgery yesterday and my hubby and I drove the hour and half to visit him last night.  On the way there we were talking about my upcoming surgery.  I told him that I was excited and I hoped that I lost my weight like a lot on here have... and I was not looking forward to my first "stall"  ........  my dear hubby doesn't believe that there are ever any stalls and that if you do not lose weight you are not trying.  I couldn't believe what I was hearing.... so he thinks that if I do not lose weight every week/ day / month I am a failure and I am going to just go back to being fat????  good gracious!  I intend on having Robin (my cordinator) or my dr. speak to him about helping me thru stalls...ect....  it kinda really ticked me off.  but there is NO telling him anything.. he is right in his mind and if you argue with him he just get more upset with you.  My kids and i have learned to just shut him out and let him rant and rave... we seriously just tune him out and nod once in a while... He can drop weight just by thinking about it.... but he only likes things like tacos, roast, chicken strips, and hamburgers.... no veggies, salads, good for you things.... he has high blood pressure...he blames on me.... diabetes.... he watches his carbs... *kinda* selective... like he will not eat bread but he will eat sonici blasts!!! * I am lucky I can't stand blasts, blizzards, mc flurries...frosty's or milkshakes...*  well enough ranting and raving on my end.... just waiting for my surgery date in 6 days... YEAH !!!

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