M F, I am so sorry to read on your profile about the loss of your little one. I am not gonna say all those dumb things people say when they don't know what to say. I feel for you and your entire family. I hope you will feel better soon, but only in your own time. NO-one can tell you how long you should grieve. You take as long as you need. And maybe ask God to releave some of the stress in your life, so you can greive just a little less each day. Congratulations, on the weight loss. You sound like you are doing wonderfully in that area. I will pray for you and your family. E-mail me if you want and we can talk more.