Welcome to the site! Lots of good info and support here. Be sure to click the reply button in the message box that you are actually replying to NOT the reply button in the last message box on the thread. For instance, if someone posts that they have a surgery date and you want to congratulate them - click the reply button in the box where they say that they now have a date. If you click the reply button in one of the other message boxes on that thread, your note of congratulations goes to that person instead of the original person that posted their surgery date. You'll get the hang of it! Keep us posted about your journey!