Not the Same Dawn
WTF?
Oct 18, 2007
Last night at Support Group we talked about child abuse. Seems most people in my condition (obese, fixed, recovering food addict) have been abused as a child. No wonder the Psych asked if I'd been molested...Anyway. I thought I was in the wrong group. For the life of me I can't recall ever being molested or hit or beaten or anything like that. But hubby and ddaughter reminded me that I had a rough childhood. I took care of my mother, MS patient, from the age of 5 to 10. Everything. From cleaning and cooking to helping her shower and even to (TMI here) change her tampons. Now if that's not shocking for a 6 year old girl to have to do, and mentally abusive, I can't think of anything that would be more...except the normal abuse that you hear about. And the thing that bothers me is that I never rebelled against it. I didn't do the teenage drinking, driving, smoking, drugs, sex...None of that stuff. At least to the point that the parents found out about it. I secretly hated my father for allowing it to happen and breaking up our home...He put my mother in a home and then remarried...That I hated. But since I never rebelled, does that mean I allowed it to happen to me? Maybe. Then I have some of the guilt. That's probably why I am a food addict.
Who I am
Sep 16, 2007