Kim D.

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Charlene B. 22 years ago

Kim, You are the only person who can decide for you if you want to have this surgery. I had to ponder for almost a year, and that was with the aid of being able to personally watch my surgeon and her patients. I just decided I couldn't live like this anymore, I hurt so much when I come home from 12 hour shifts at work that I can barely walk. I'm short of breath climbing the stairs to go to bed, I hate to get dressed because I hate the way I look in clothes. (LOL! not for you to get the impression that I look good WITHOUT them!!!) The surgery is risky, that is for sure. All surgery is when you are morbidly obese, and especially when you have sleep apnea the immediate recovery is a little tricky when coupled with the anesthesia drugs and the post op pain drugs. But YOU are the one to decide if the risks outweigh the benefits and what is right for you. I would suggest looking at surgeons around your area who perform bariatric surgery, and see if there are local support groups available. The comfort of flesh and blood people, as well as the cybergroup here will go a long way to making you comfortable. Good luck to you. Charlene

Mary H. 22 years ago

kim welcome to the site and to our family ,being afraid is normal but know that to me this is the best thing i have ever done . and we will all be here for you and help in any way we can

Joyce F. 22 years ago

Kim, after reading your post regarding your feelings about WLS I wanted to tell you that you are only going throught what all of us have gone through as we try to decide which direction to take. ONLY YOU can decide what is right for you. There are no guarantees, not only with this surgery, but as far as anything in life. I would love to be able to tell you that everything will be all right and ease your fears. But no one can do that. I can tell you that you need to research WLS as much as possible and learn all you can about your doctor. Weigh all the pros and cons. Take your time about making a decision. Good luck on your journey.

Sharon Neva 22 years ago

KIM~~~~May you always have an Angel by your side. Watching out for you in all the things you do. Reminding you to keep believing in brighter days. Finding ways for your wishes and dreams to come true. Giving you hope that is as certain as the sun. Giving you the strength of serenity as your guide. May you always have love and comfort and courage. May you always have an Angel by your side. Someone there to catch you if you fall, Encouraging your dreams, Inspiring your happiness, Holding your hand and helping you through it all.