Mary Lou R.
Nearly 4 Years Post-Op: a Reflection
Apr 26, 2009
I just received my first friend request on OH, Nicole. I am honored. I know that there is are LOTS of people who share my weight loss surgery approach, as well as those who are considering surgery. I'm trying to remember my pre-op state of mind and it is a difficult recollection. My transformation has been phenomenal and I don't regret any decision I have made. That is quite a revelation for me to make. Even the bad decisions have offered learning opportunities and I am stronger for the experience.
My new OH friend is quite young, married with young children and parents who are a part of her life. My experience is quite different yet I can relate to her feelings. I want to encourage her to stay the course, don't give up. Improving your self esteem and self care will translate as a positive into all of your relationships; children, spouse, friends and family. Your journey is just beginning and it is much too early to declare defeat. Stay the course. I wish that I had had the foresight to improve my life at an earlier age. You have so much ahead of you and being healthier will create an even more positive experience.
What a small world we live in. I look forward to my first OH gathering in Chicago in June. It will be wonderful to meet others who have made the same life saving commitment to change. MLR
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My new OH friend is quite young, married with young children and parents who are a part of her life. My experience is quite different yet I can relate to her feelings. I want to encourage her to stay the course, don't give up. Improving your self esteem and self care will translate as a positive into all of your relationships; children, spouse, friends and family. Your journey is just beginning and it is much too early to declare defeat. Stay the course. I wish that I had had the foresight to improve my life at an earlier age. You have so much ahead of you and being healthier will create an even more positive experience.
What a small world we live in. I look forward to my first OH gathering in Chicago in June. It will be wonderful to meet others who have made the same life saving commitment to change. MLR