Sherry, I am so sorry about the death of your friend. My friend that began the surgery research and process with me also died about a month after my surgery, one week after hers. That was last September, and I miss her all the time. Time makes the pain a little less sharp, but we never really recover from the loss of those we love. My friend's name was Donna Sublett- you can read about her on the memorial page. You might do a posting for your friend there, too. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Your friend will be watching over you on your journey.