JANE~~ IT'S COMPLETELY NORMAL TO BE SCARED~~ Do your research and then make your decision, but the best thing to help combat the fear
is information. Go over the possible complications and the odds, etc.(but don't dwell on them) You must have confidence that you are making a good decision for yourself with the knowledge that you have the right to choose what is best for you. Only you are qualified to make the decisions about your body and your life. I know that it's the best decision that I've ever made.