Question:
Has surgery changed your spouses desire for you?

My husband has always been turned on by my large size. Any post-op folks out there who thought the same, but has found different?    — Suzie M. (posted on July 1, 2001)

July 1, 2001
I wonder the same thing. I am pre-op and have been regaining a recent weight loss and I find my husband strangely more frisky than when I'd lost the weight (which believe me is a drop in the bucket with what I need to loose) It could be his desire to be with me as much as he can with my pending surgery coming up...but he's always seemed bizarly turned on by my size. So I do wonder how he will react when I really get small. I bet he'll adjust ;)
   — [Anonymous]

July 1, 2001
Were both getting surgery and frankly I have wondered about this. BIG girls always turned me on. I have to admit sometimes I think the before pictures look better, although the afters are certinally more healthy.... My wofe is going to looe nearly 200 pounds and neither of us have any idea what we will look like thin. But this will be a small price to be healthy. I hope she isnt disappointed at how I end up looking, I love her very much and would not want to loose her because she will likely be a knockout thin. It scary for me, I love her SO much.
   — [Anonymous]