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Twenty Most Recent Questions:

  1. Having abdominal cramps what can it be? (Jul 4, 2009) (View) (no answers yet; please post yours!)
  2. Has anyone's spouse/partner lost interest in your new body? (Jul 4, 2009) (View) (1 answer)
  3. Anyone with bad reaction to perscription Lomotil? (Jul 3, 2009) (View) (no answers yet; please post yours!)
  4. I had surgery Friday May 29th (Jul 3, 2009) (View) (4 answers)
  5. Size 8 at 190 lbs??? (Jul 3, 2009) (View) (7 answers)
  6. how do you post before and after pics (Jul 3, 2009) (View) (1 answer)
  7. Sleeve or DS? (Jul 3, 2009) (View) (6 answers)
  8. URGENT!!! Please help (Jul 3, 2009) (View) (8 answers)
  9. 3 and a half months out (Jul 2, 2009) (View) (2 answers)
  10. how long can the band be in place and function? (Jul 2, 2009) (View) (3 answers)
  11. about lap band surgery (Jul 2, 2009) (View) (3 answers)
  12. I will be having a lap band done in Aug. My question is long term (Jul 2, 2009) (View) (no answers yet; please post yours!)
  13. I AM 7 WKS POST OP, RNY..IS THERE ANY ONE SO NEW THAT IS MAJORLY DOWN? (Jul 2, 2009) (View) (5 answers)
  14. Did anyone have any trouble with the EMMI program? (Jul 2, 2009) (View) (3 answers)
  15. How Many Calories should I be eating? (Jul 2, 2009) (View) (5 answers)
  16. How do I get in enough protein without eating too much? (Jul 2, 2009) (View) (6 answers)
  17. key stone mercy insurence (Jul 2, 2009) (View) (no answers yet; please post yours!)
  18. please help if you have answer. (Jul 2, 2009) (View) (no answers yet; please post yours!)
  19. i need help , im in philadelphia (Jul 2, 2009) (View) (2 answers)
  20. How can I decide on lap band or Roux-en-y? I have done my research. (Jul 1, 2009) (View) (9 answers)

Thirty Most Recent Answers:

Q: Sleeve or DS?

[Jul 4, 2009]     Thanks to all of you for your input. I have a lot of research and self evaluation to do. I lost 34 pounds with the band and kept it off. However, I essentially stopped after the 34 without working out contantly and being hungry in the afternoon and evenings. I wish the band were more consistent. I can't eat much of anything until 1 or 2 in the afternoon. Then I can eat a lot in the evenings. Of course, I can't eat a steak dinner or anything like that, but it doesn't stop me from gulping 10 cookies in the evening. I want there to be only one more surgery. Part of me is afraid that a restrictive only procedure will not be consistent. It makes me feel like I need to take it out of my hands and have some something that will allow less absorbtion. I have some time to decide.     — Mary T.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Sleeve or DS?

[Jul 4, 2009]     You need to do some research as most of us did. I opted for the "sleeve", U have NO malabsorbtion problems, no nasty smelling gas etc. U have to think down the road in years to come how will you be health wise. All but the Lap Band and VSG involved rerouting your insides and depend on not ADSORBING all you eat, U also get the "dumping" issue with all but the Lap Band and the VSG. Just make sure there are not hidden issues you are having as to why U did not lose weight with the Lap Band. I am considered a "light weight" with less then 100 pounds to lose and I am down from 220 at 5'3" to 157 in 8 months. It all depends on your personal needs and wants. RESEARCH RESEARCH     — Michelle W.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: URGENT!!! Please help

[Jul 4, 2009]     I used to be plagued with sinus infections lasting 4-5 months and the strongest antibiotics would give me a little relief but the infection never completely went away. I also USED to have allergies. I started using luke warm water mixed with 1 t baking soda, 2 t peroxide and 1 T salt. I put mixture in a tea pot and pour it into one nostril while tilting my head sideways over the bathroom sink and letting the mixture drain out of the opposite nostril...it rinses out all that infection..its a miracle. I havent had a sinus infection for 3 years now. If you think about it..it makes sense..when we have an infection on our skin, we cleanse the area to get rid of the infection. I hope this helps.     — G M.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Has anyone's spouse/partner lost interest in your new body?

[Jul 4, 2009]     Yes, unfortunately, I have heard of this quite often. There are just men who love us big and soft and don't want us to change. My own step-father saw me in a bikini one day when I was about 14 (and not really even overweight, just "lush" and curvy, and definitely NOT boney).... and he said to my Mom...."God, she's just MADE for "comfort". I didn't have any idea what he meant until years later, when I dated a person who was all bones and angles, and intimacy was very uncomfortable because of it. I'm sorry your husband is not attracted to you sexually any longer, but this is one of the hazards we face when we make the choice to become healthy. Many of our friends, and even our loved ones, will be threatened by our new self-confidence, joy, and beautiful glow, and will either walk away from us, or cause us to walk away from them. Kind of reminds me of the "Reason, Season, or Lifetime" email that goes around occasionally. I'm sorry for your pain....     — Erica A.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: URGENT!!! Please help

[Jul 4, 2009]     I had the GRDS procedure, one year ago. I take Prednisone daily for Rheumatoid Arthritis, and I am just fine. My doctor knew going in I had to take it, and said it was not a problem. Tina     — Tina C.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Size 8 at 190 lbs???

[Jul 4, 2009]     I am 5-7" also and I was never a size 8 at the weight you are now. I was more like a 16-18 because I am pear-shaped. As the other posters have said it is all about proportion more than actual weight. And more so for you since you have had plastics. The main thing for you to be concerned with is are you healthy at your current weight or will you be healthier at the lower 150-160 range per the standardized height/weight tables? It seems reasonable that if you lose an additional 30-35 lbs thatn you will end up in a smaller size but maybe not more than 1 size less due to the plastics that have already re-proportioned your figure. Only time will tell for sure.     — Pat T.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Size 8 at 190 lbs???

[Jul 4, 2009]     Since you dropped in size, maybe the scale will reflect the change shortly also. Congrats! Janell     — Janell C.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: I had surgery Friday May 29th

[Jul 4, 2009]     You are exactly 2 years after me on the same day. Welcome to the Loser's Bench! I'd say you're probably fine to go on the rides at this point but have you had your post-op followup with your surgeon? S/he'd be the one to really answer that question. I went to Disneyland for the first time last year and had a blast riding all the rides and actually being tiny in some of the seats! What a trip!     — Panthera M.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: I had surgery Friday May 29th

[Jul 4, 2009]     My only concern for you would be that you are within the posted weight limits for the ride. I've heard too many horror stories about overweight people misstating their weight in order to get on the ride, and then having accidents or injuries as a result of it. So, if you're weight is within their safety limits, go for it!! Have fun!!     — Erica A.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Size 8 at 190 lbs???

[Jul 4, 2009]     What's an IBW? Ideal Body Weight? Some people use acronyms on here that I have no idea what they mean...but after a few minutes thought, I think I may have figured this one out. I am also 5'7" (but I used to be 5'9") - and my surgeon thinks that 170 is a good goal for me, but I want to get down to 150. I don't think I have ever in my LIFE worn a 10 or a 12, and I'm not sure I will now... I think my behind is to broad. But you know... I was in a size 14-16 when I got married, so if that's the best I get, I'll be happy. It's a heck of a lot better than a woman's size 28 or 30!     — Erica A.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Sleeve or DS?

[Jul 4, 2009]     Only you can answer this question: WHY do you think you were unsuccessful with the lap band? I'm only 4 months out of VSG, but I was loosing very little (I'm 5'10", starting weight 469). I knew I was eating very little (but getting in lean protien and healthy foods), not drinking water with meals, not drinking sodas, etc. I went to an alternative medicine doctor who did a series of tests on me, which included an adrenal stress index panel and a blood work panel of other organs and hormonal levels. All but one were out of whack. He is doing accupressure manipulations of those affected organs, and is now looking for food allergies. (There are some major ones; don't know which yet.) I am now loosing close to a lb. a day. I'm still sceptical, but also still willing to try this. He will repeat the tests in September to see if the numbers are better. You need to understand WHY you didn't loose, then make decisions based on those answers. More surgery may not be the answer. If you sabotaged your band, why? There are fixes for those kind of problems, too, for which professionals can help . Keep looking for the answers.     — Jackie T.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Can you from a VBG to a Lap Band?

[Jul 4, 2009]     you can go from a VG to a RNY .but not a VG to band( I know this from my surgeon.) I have had a VG and struggle to maintain my goal weight...so I understand .     — Gay G.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Size 8 at 190 lbs???

[Jul 4, 2009]     I am 5'8" 175 lbs. and i have tried on so many different clothes and I can fit into most 12's but have some 10's too, so depends on clothes, frame and proportion. I really wouldn't worry about sizes, Just be Thankfull. You are what you are!!!     — Sue B.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Sleeve or DS?

[Jul 4, 2009]     I had the sleeve done and I would do it again in a heartbeat. I have lost 110 pounds in less then a year, now I am just maintaining. Good Luck!!!     — Sue B.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Sleeve or DS?

[Jul 4, 2009]     For only 80 lbs I would go with the VSG, for that little, getting a DS would be like getting an elephant gun to shoot a rabbit.     — Sam A.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Size 8 at 190 lbs???

[Jul 4, 2009]     Lesleigh, I have already had my plastics done in 2007, so I can't really count that extra skin......cuz its all gone. LOL!     — Trish F.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: I had surgery Friday May 29th

[Jul 4, 2009]     As long as you feel up to it, go for it. You know yourself better than anybody. Enjoy the ride. You're only young once.     — Kathleen W.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: I had surgery Friday May 29th

[Jul 4, 2009]     I guess if you are all healed and your energy level is up to par go for it.     — Lesleigh I.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Size 8 at 190 lbs???

[Jul 4, 2009]     Sizes run different than when we were young. You must be tall. If you fit in a six 8 be glad. I am 118 and wear a six 4/6. In my teens at 105 I wore those sizes. And then there is the fact of the loose skin making you weigh more than you really do.. I set my scales down 5# to compensate for the skin. It is not fat, it is just skin that I can't do anything about..     — Lesleigh I.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: how do you post before and after pics

[Jul 4, 2009]     You actually have to mail picture in to them.     — Lesleigh I.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: URGENT!!! Please help

[Jul 4, 2009]     Does she know you are a gastric by-pass patient? Call your bariatric center and make sure. My Doctor okay Psudoephedrine. You have to get it behind the counter as it is controlled, but with no prescription. It is the best at relieving the pressure in your head. Feel better.     — Lesleigh I.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Size 8 at 190 lbs???

[Jul 4, 2009]     I am five seven and I look my best at around 150-160 pounds. However, everyone's body is proportioned differently. If you are looking the way you want, and feeling heatlhy then I wouldn't worry about sizes.     — Paula J.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: about lap band surgery

[Jul 4, 2009]     I believe it is forever!! I am having so much fun watching the pounds just fall off me!! I had LB last November and I am down 86# with only 30 more to go. Losing between 10-12# per month. I haven't had a fill in 3 months, and I'm doing just great. It IS a lifetime commitment, and not so hard to live with once I got over the carb addiction. That was rough. I haven't had a potato, no pasta, no bread, and absolutely no desserts since last October! I pray that I never have any of these things again in my life. I do NOT count calories nor fat grams. I ONLY count carbs, and I keep that under 30Gms a day. When I have the munchies, I eat about 4 slices of bacon! I will admit that I do have one "cheat", that being Hershey's dark chocolate Kisses, and then I only have 2, it says on their package that the dark chocolate is equal to a glass of wine, and good for the heart, so I allow myself this minor indulgence. My Dr. knows I do this, and he hasn't said for me to stop. My feeling is that if I am feeling deprived, I will fall into a carb attack and lose all the ground I have gained since surgery. I'm 62, a nurse here in Jacksonville, and still working full time. My insurance is the best, Aetna. They paid 100% and are still paying for my monthly visits. I work for HCA, and my hopsital bill was also paid 100% by my employer. Ya know, they don't want unhealthy people (like me, FAT, slow, short of breath, back problems, etc.), being an example for their sick patients. Also, my insurance doesn't want to pay for me to have a heart attack and end up a cardiac cripple, or on disablitiy because of back problems so by us all working together, everyone benefits. I am much quicker on my feet, heart is doing fine, LDL, HDL and tryglicerides are all normal, and the boost to my self-esteem is remarkable. I do take alot of supplements. I have no problem with the big pills as long as I take them *before* I eat. I don't ever drink liquids with my meals. I can eat 3 meatballs, or 3 chicken wing sections, or 1/2 cup cottage cheese with Splenda fruit cocktail (Sams) and I am usually stuffed!. I always put protein in my pouch first, and if there is any room left, I eat some veggies. I don't touch raw fruit, and I save my bacon for my snacks. LB surgery has been a life-saver for me. My life began again on Nov. 4th 2008, and I am so grateful. Sure, I still have bad days when I want a chocolate donut, but when I walk in front of my mirror, the feeling passes! It IS a lifetime change, and anyone who thinks it's temporary with prove themselves right and gain all their weight back. BTW, did I tell you that my insurance is going to pay for a total body and breast life this coming November? Uh Huh, by then I will have lost a whole human being of about 120#. I am a walking commercial for LapBand surgery! Just me, Sam(f) Haddock Jacksonville, FL     — Sandra "Sam" H.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: how long can the band be in place and function?

[Jul 3, 2009]     I asked that same type question to my surgeon. I asked what will happen to it in say, 50 years. His answer was that since it hasn't been around that long, no one has that answer. If the research is showing 10 years, that doesn't sound very good to me. I am doing this for a lifetime change, not just a decade..... now, one other interesting thing that my surgeon said is that if you look at how different surgeries and solutions for WL have changed over even the last 10 years, there may be something even greater and beeter in 10 years. My insurance only covers lapband, so that ends up being my surgery of choice.     — Libby R.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Did anyone have any trouble with the EMMI program?

[Jul 3, 2009]     I got into my EMMI program right away. I'd call your provider and ask them for the instructions again.     — Lisa D.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: Sleeve or DS?

[Jul 3, 2009]     if you're going to have more surgery, i suggest going all the way and having the DS-- that way you get restriction and maximum malabsorption.     — Jen D.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: I AM 7 WKS POST OP, RNY..IS THERE ANY ONE SO NEW THAT IS MAJORLY DOWN?

[Jul 3, 2009]     I'm pretty down too. I am 2 weeks post op and I too want to be healthy NOW. Don't really have any answers. Just wanted you to know you're not alone. A friend of mine told me that when you break an addiction depression is very common. I'm already on an antidepressant but I am considering calling my shrink to see what she thinks. Don't give up! I won't either and you're not alone!!     — Jean R.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: URGENT!!! Please help

[Jul 3, 2009]     You should be able to take prednisone but eat a small amount of food or sip on a protein drink when you take it. This drug can cause a stomach ache but your Nexium may keep you from have discomfort.I have taken it before and needed to take food with it but everyone is different     — Gay G.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: How do I get in enough protein without eating too much?

[Jul 3, 2009]     I use Isopure Protein Water from Vitamin World or GNC. 20 oz of liquid has 40 grams of protein and no sugar. Flavors are okay, but I prefer grape frost or the orange/banana/pineapple mix. I drink 1-1½ a day to keep my protein levels up.     — Sandra M.     (See other answers/post your answer)

Q: How do I get in enough protein without eating too much?

[Jul 3, 2009]     Since we can't drink carbonated drinks anymore, I have found a bottled, flavored drink to take the place of cokes (pop, whatever). Isopure is a protein drink with milk whey that I get at either HEB here in Texas or Nutrition Depot (cheaper than grocery store and more flavors.) I love the grape flavor; my husband likes the tea flavor or tropical fruit punch flavor(REALLY sweet!) There are probably a dozen flavors and there will be several you'll probably like. 40 grams of protein per 20 oz bottle...160 calories. Still have had no hair loss 4 months out! I also drink Protein Max, THE best tasting protein powder ever. Check out The World According to Eggface website for many scrumptious protein powder recipes, including protein powder ice cream. You can do this!     — Jackie T.     (See other answers/post your answer)