Sexualy more comfortable

I have come to realize in the past few days i am sexualy more comfortable. I feel more limber and have the energy to go longer. This has been a great boost to my life in the bedroom.

Woohoooooooie!

not for me - i'd just as soon be shot as have sex. my husband is NOT a happy man right now, bless his heart. i don't know what happened, but it's just not there...

me, too and dh can't get enough of me now. LOL

I feel better about my body, but have had absolutely no interest in any bedroom activities since the surgery. What is my problem?

i wish i knew - i've got the same problem. i ordered some of that avlimil stuff online the other day. maybe that will help... who knows??? but, my husband is getting kind of grumpy.

My husband is in the poor thing club - I have about as much sexuality as a roc****ep waiting for a burst of sexual energy to hit me but right now as sexual as I get is hugging my pillow when I sleep. -Sherrie

I have heard that over and over. Even some of the people in my wls groups. I feel the same way. Just NOT in the mood. Although I have obliged my dh which he is quite happy about that. The drive is just not there. I am so focused on -did I loose? - what did I eat? Did I get in all my protein? Why am I not loosing... Let me check myself out in the mirror - there are so many thoughts running through my head (not that I always check myself out in the mirror) I crack myself up... anyways... I just am not feeling the urge. Too distracted about loosing faster and loosing more THEN it will be better. BUT at the same time I do definitely notice the difference!!! Elizabeth M

OH lordy!!!! My new husband will be here from Sweden in 25 days, and ya'll are scarin me.. lol........ No sex drive!!! He will think I died and someone else took my place. I can only hope I am in the group that can't get enough!! I have lost 50 lbs now since March 15, and hopefully another 10 or more before he gets here.... I feel great... Lorrie R