Count your Blessings

Tis the time of year to reflect upon what is really important in life. As I look to the future of my impending PS, I can't help but reflect on what has occured over the past 21 months. It has been an amazing process with lots of ups and downs. However, I can't help but think about how lucky I am to have shed the weight I have and maintained it for the most part. This surgery has changed many things for me in many ways, most good and others not so good. But over and over I can't help but think that I would do it all over again, if not sooner as I have received such a wonderful gift in regards to gaining my life anew. I can do things that I haven't done for years, and I can do things that I don't want to do. This surgery has presented options that aren't always in my best interest and created conflict that wasn't present prior to the loss of weight. But, I would rather take on those struggles then not. I am Catholic and attend church weekly. While it is right for me, I know it isn't right for everybody. Regardless, I hope all of you take time to reflect, meditate, or pray. Do what works for you, but make an effort to slow down your mind and clear your thoughts. Think about how it felt to be held back by your size and the guilt you felt for being heavy. Picture the "new" you and how it has made things better. Picture where you want to be and have positive thoughts. Have your mind tell your body that you will be successful. Ok, folks I can say that I need you all. I love coming here to remind me to keep it all in perspective. I wish you all a Merry Christmas and may God continue to bless you in the New Year.

Right back at you Deputy Dawg!! It has been an amazing year & you are correct some good & some not so good. But we do have a lot to be thankful & this board is sure one of them. God Bless you & your family for a Great 2006 & by all means be safe!! Marilyn, the Bearlady

Thanks, Ken, for your warm and thoughtful words of support. I am still awestruck by my level of physical activity, doing things in the gym that I just never even imagined I'd be doing. This journey has been fraught with highs and lows, lots of joy and plenty of sadness, too. If I can just keep moving, both physically and psychologically, I'll be ok. I wish you and yours much joy in another "new" year for the new you...love to all, Maureen

Lots of the same to you, my friend! Yes it has been an interesting ride so far and it figures to remain that way! Lots of ups and downs, but certainly more on the "UP SIDE". Having you here with all of the other fine people on this board makes it possible for me to keep my head together when the "dark side" creeps in. Wishing you and yours all the best this Christmas and a safe and healthy 2006. Mike