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lovinlife
on 10/9/05 9:13 pm - lima, oh
Topic: RE: A WOW moment!!! :)
It really is awesome when people comment.. Im like you..I cant tell a huge difference..I mean I can tell..Down from a 24 to a 14 but its just hard to get used to. My friend told me in church yesturday...your too skinny...you cant sit by me!!..she was kidding of course but it was a good feeling!!!! Keep up the good work!! I bet you slept that ounce right off!!! Patti 270/192/165?
javafiend
on 10/9/05 1:32 pm - Lebanon, TN
Topic: RE: goal weight?
Did you ever ask you surgeon why he picked the weight goal that he did? I talked to my doc at my 6 month visit about it. I am 5'8" and he set a goal of 145, at the last visit I was at 158 and in size 10. He said the goal weight was calculated by determining how much I needed to lose and what the average WLS weight loss is. (about 60-80% of your excess body weight). My doc then said it is definitely an inexact science since your weight/BMI can be affected by muscle mass and frame size. I am small boned but muscular and I have always been physically active. So, he said, the goal weight he set for me may be unrealistic when you consider the other factors. I do agree with you about the being happy where you are now if you couldn't lose anymore. I feel so blessed by my success with this tool and so happy with my newfound energy and a size 10 bod...it almost feels like being greedy to think of dropping 10-15 more pounds. Two years ago I would have wet myself laughing if someone told me I would lose 98 pounds in six months and be a size 10. I don't think your surgeon meant for your goal weight to be written in stone, or something for you to stress over. I have followed your story since our dates were so close together and I believe in your ability to use this tool as it was intended. You aren't being vain, just experiencing a little self doubt. You are a strong and rational person, you will be healthy and have a longer more enjoyable life now...and thats what really matters, isn't it? Take Care, Becky R 254/156/145 Size 20W to baggy 10s in 6 months!
corgimom
on 10/9/05 12:55 pm - Memphis, TN
Topic: Another WLS site
Hello fellow Marchers, I wanted to tell you guys about a pretty good site about wls. I subscribe to a newsletter and visit a blog called living after wls. It is run by a person named Kaye Bailey and the site address is http://www.livingafterwls.com and the blog is http://livingafterwls.blogspot.com I enjoy her newsletter and the encouragement and infomation she provides. just an fyi corgimom
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on 10/9/05 12:24 pm - baltimore, MD
Topic: RE: goal weight?
I agree with you that being about 137 seems light too me too. I'm about 2 inches shorter and told I should be 145. Then again, I think your body will stop when its done. I'm not about to struggle to lose weight. I'll do what my body tells me to do. I think that "healthy" depends on you body. If you feel healthy now and aren't getting sick, don't have medical problems. Well then you are healthy.
meeshaphrenic
on 10/9/05 8:35 am - Greensboro, NC
Topic: goal weight?
my surgeon set my goal weight at 137. for years i thought i was at least 5'8, but according to their measurements i'm only 5'7. 137 just seems so low to me, i can't remember ever weighing that, i had to have been in elementary school and much shorter. (i've been overweight/obese since i was a child, so i have no memories of being a healthy weight) my lightest adult weight (after a dangerous and unhealthy diet) was 190, and i didn't stay there for very long. i used to say i'd be happy just getting under 200 again, but i guess the more you lose, the more you want to lose. for a while now i've been putting my personal goal down as 150. to be in the healthy BMI range i'd need to weigh between 120-160, so i guess my surgeon's goal isn't that crazy after all. i'm at 181 now, just barely fitting into non-plus sizes (16-18) and really active. i'm able to do all the things i couldn't do pre-op and wanted to do. if for some strange reason i couldn't lose any more weight, i could be happy where i am now. ::knock on wood:: but there's the other side of me that wants to be skinny. my loss has slowed a LOT lately (i'm only losing 1-2 lbs. a week now) and sometimes i worry that the honeymoon period is over and i won't reach my goal after all. i feel like i'm being vain, but at the same time i know that the surgery has given me the chance to do this, so why not? anys, i guess i just needed to vent a little. michelle 277/181/150?
meeshaphrenic
on 10/9/05 8:15 am - Greensboro, NC
Topic: RE: Century Club!!!
CONGRATS!! i'm just a few pounds away myself and getting so antsy! michelle 277/181/150?
cher22
on 10/9/05 8:13 am - Oak Park, IL
Topic: RE: 250 DOWN 30 TO GO
Steve Well bless your heart!!!! I am truley just so happy for you!! Keep up the self love and dedication. CHER 248/171/144
cher22
on 10/9/05 8:11 am - Oak Park, IL
Topic: RE: Century Club!!!
Angela WTG I AM SO SO HAPPY FOR YOU!! I am doing the century dance for ya HERE I GO WATCH ME NOW!!!! I can shake my groove thang a little better now that its not so big!!! LOL Just to think one year ago this was just a dream to us all!!! I wish you all the best along with blessed days CHER 248/171/144
melaniewhite
on 10/9/05 2:21 am
Topic: RE: 250 DOWN 30 TO GO
Steve, Hold on to your wallet! My credit cards are maxed out after loosing 86 pounds! It is hard not to go crazy for new clothes! Congratulations! You sexy thing you! Melanie 232/146/130
(deactivated member)
on 10/9/05 12:07 am - Elizabethtown, KY
Topic: RE: A WOW moment!!! :)
Thanks Susie! Congrats on your loss! That oz is gone! I am in the century club! Angela
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