NOOOO!!! LOL not yet anyway!!!!! but thanks for the support.. its my ex-husband... who decided a few years ago to stop seeing my son... so I took him to court.... (we had shared custody)... I am on my second marriage and we have been together 5 yrs.

hold the phone this man told you he can't trust you anymore and you stayed quiet, good night nurse tell me you're joking? Do you realize that there are legal ramification to what he said, do you realize that questioning someone's trust with no real reason is ridiculous and downright stinky? Come on Carla why are you taking this like a door mat? Good night nurse why are you making nice nice with him when he needs to be apologizing to you. ANDI

well, I am decompressing.. today I got full custody of my son with a yet to be determined child support.... yippy!!!!!!!!! he got liberal visitation YUCK!!!!!!!!!.... but its almost over...so today I am taking the rest of the night to relax and plan on going to bed early... that soup sounds yummy... how do you make it? I have all sorts of trouble with water intake...

Deanne, My plastic surgeon told me $41K for a lower body lift / inner thigh lift and new boobs! If the market were better here is California I would refinance my house in a minute!!! I say go for it! You deserve it! Trish

Hi Carla! I tend to believe that he has a secret crush on you! He could have had a "dream" about you one night and that is all it took to make him uncomfortable around you now. Hee, hee! But, I think your idea of asking him to lunch to discuss it would be a good idea ... you could tell him that you are the same person and the only thing that concerns you is that he feels he can't trust you when you haven't done anything that would cause this. Maybe some bitter person you work with made a comment to him that isn't true and you could take this opportunity to make sure no one is bad mouthing you. I think being up front is a good thing ... let him know you care about his job and don't want any ill feelings from him. Deanna