I go up and down about 7 pounds too. I have not seen any rhyme or reason to it, it just is...

Ok.. so I have been at the same job for 25 years and at this job area of work for over 3 years. My boss is a very nice older man but has a rep of being a ladies man. Now he has never approached me in any way so that is not my issue. All of sudden about 6 months ago he started acting weird, almost like he wont look or talk to me. I have spoken to him numerous times and asked if we are ok and he always says yes. Now I have a very lack job that as long as I show up each day, get my job done, he doesnt care what we do. All of a sudden, everything i do is under a micorscope, things that he has never had a problem with is now a problem. So he called me in the other day and told me.. he doesnt feel comfortable around me anymore.. that he cant trust me. I havent done anything to him or anyone for that matter. I stay in my office, travel to my appointments, do my work and leave. I rarely speak to anyone which is kind of the way our jobs work. It's actually pretty lonely around the office as we are all always traveling and coming and going. So what have I done to make him all of a sudden uncomfortable with me. he wont look at me, he barely talks to me and when he does he seems to struggle with the conversation. Is it because I have lost weight and I am not the person he has known for the past 25 years. I am not sure what to think. Has anyone experienced a change in their people at work because of their wls and changes in the way they look. I dont think my personality has changed any or that I am doing anything different than what I have been doing. What do you think... I told him we need to go to lunch and talk and work through his feelings. I really care about him and dont want this uncomfortablness to continue.

Ruth, Can you believe that I have forgotten to ask that question? I forgot right after surgery and then at the one week follow up I forgot again!!! That is the most important question and I keep forgetting to ask. I have an appointment Thursday and I will surely ask then and let you know. I am 5ft 4in tall and weighed 170 the night before surgery. I don't think I was at a normal bmi then, I'm not sure that I am a normal bmi even after the surgery. I haven't applied for the century card yet, I'm really not sure how to do that! Thanks for all your encouragement. Amy

Good Monday to you all. And what do you have planned for this week? I finally got the promotion I was offerred at the higher rate of pay I asked for - woohoo! That will be starting soon so I am making the most of my 1 hour in the afternoons before my daughter comes home from school to get everything done that needs to be done before I start working full time. I am also trying really hard to be positive about myself and my eating. Each meal is a new meal that I can make the right choices about, each day a new day. I'm going to hang in there and keep plugging away. Have a great week everybody

So how come I'm the odd one out? No obvious answers and wise cracks needed hee hee. I guess I should be used to it - I usually stick out from the crowd and like it that way most of the time