Are you kidding??? I LOVE to help pick out clothes! Which is funny because I hate shopping for myself You look fabulous in both of them by the way. My pick would be the green lace dress, although I love the little red jacket with the black and white one. But I think you should probably go a little dressy since it is an evening wedding and the reception is indoors. And I do NOT think you are showing too much cleavage in either one. They are both very tasteful and nothing to be embarassed by! So my vote is the green. Corinna Q

Sorry to ask this of you, but I need candid feedback. I bought three dresses for an evening wedding. The wedding is outside and the reception is inside a hotel. I'm not sure how dressy or casual I should go. Two of the dresses seem to show too much cleavage. I put those close-ups on my profile so you can help me judge. I never show cleavage and I think I may be embarassed by it. Thanks! Wanda

Sharon, Welcome back! I've just rejoined myself and am very happy to have done so. It seems that once again we're all struggling with the same issues and it helps to know I'm not alone. Although you might be upset that you haven't lost anything recently not gaining is something to celebrate too. Maintaining can be just as difficult as loosing. So keep up the great work. Corinna Q

I will send Tucker to train your little loves ... I am working on it!!!! that was FUNNY CECE!!!

Hi CeCe, Thanks for the encouragement! Actually, my doctor has been trying to get me to get off the diuretics (I take 3 different ones a day, really depletes my potassium) so she was a little pleased. But as of today, I have already lost 4 lbs! Mainly fluid, but at least the scale is coming down!! I spoke with a nutritionist here at the VA where I work and she recommended 40% carbs, 40% protein, and 20% fat on a 1200-calorie diet. The carbs are no problem, the protein is a little tough to reach and the fat is way too low!! So I will eat healthy and find where my balance is. I already feel so much better, now that I am watching the carbs. She also recommended to never eat carbs alone - always eat them with protein and even a little fat. So I think I can do that. I feel in control again and I think that's better than anything. Hope I have a great report next week! Hugs, Deidrah