SYSK Dethroned

April Henderson
on 2/13/08 3:00 pm, edited 2/14/08 3:33 am - Modesto, CA

Well,

It is official. I am turning in my tiara per the exhausting conflict with Diane. I apparently "do not want to get into a ******g contest with her", so I figure this is the easiest way to make sure of it. I do want to clarify a few things though. "If you both had paid a little better attention to the posts on the board, you are not that new, you would know how this worked before. " - I actually didn't become active on the boards until around November or December. I had never even heard of the SYSK or POTW until when we started it in 2008. So, I did not even know there were rules. "As for you, you have been around long enough that you should have told her when she picked you again, that you just had it, instead of accept it." -Nor did I know that I should be rude and turn down the honor when it was given to me the second time. So, to those of you who left me great support messages this second time, I'm sorry they were given to me, as they should have apparently gone to someone else who was more deserving. So, in my last act as SYSK for the week, I would like to give over the tiara to none other than she who apparently knows how this should TRULY work, the one who will give it to those who actually "DESERVE" it (because apparently neither myself, Tiffany or Denise did)... you guessed it..... THE ALMIGHTY ONE DIANE Congratulations Diane!!! I can think of none better than you who deserve this. Please, stop by her page and leave her some support everyone, since she has shown nothing but that to all the rest of us... Oh.... wait...

And for future reference, please exclude me from any of the SYSK or POTW honors. I don't want to be a part of something that doesn't actually support people.
* ALL ITEMS IN BOLD ARE DIANE'S ACTUAL COMMENTS

De Anna
on 2/13/08 3:35 pm - Monterey, CA

RNY on 12/13/07

April, if anyone ever deserved to by SYSK twice in one month, it is you! You are the kindest, most thoughtful person. You're so encouraging to everyone. You've dealt with all of this as tactfully as possible, and as usual, I respect you for it. We could all benefit from being a little more like you.

You know how after a president's term has ended, he's still called Mr. President for the rest of his life? Well that's how I feel about you. Regardless if your reign has ended, you will be SYSK for life!

DeAnna

April Henderson
on 2/14/08 3:20 am - Modesto, CA

RNY on 04/29/08

Thank you so much Deanna. Watch out, you are sure to be labeled as my "BFF" if you keep talking to me with kind words.

anewbecboo
on 2/13/08 4:24 pm - Ellensburg, WA

RNY on 05/21/07

I just read the mess, so sorry that you were put in the middle of it. I try to come to the Cali board everyday to check on things, though I am usually on the main board,I'm trying to be more of a presence on the Cali board. I don't know a whole lot about SYSK or POTW, but I'm sorry you were made to feel so crappy about it! I just wanted to send some hugs and support your way!!! (((((((((((April)))))))))))) Can't wait till you join us on the loser's bench! May God bless your journey!!! biggest hugs, Becky

Surgery was RNY 5/21/07...I can be found on Facebook: anewbecboo or Becky Reddick

April Henderson
on 2/14/08 3:19 am - Modesto, CA

RNY on 04/29/08

Thank you SOOOOOOOOOO much Becky for your kind words. I am glad that you could see it for what it really was. And as an outsider of my supposed "BFF"'s, I am really glad you commented. Thank you very much. I hope you have a terrific Valentine's Day!!! And God Bless You too!!! April

Precious Dork Doll ..
on 2/13/08 4:51 pm - Modesto, CA

RNY on 11/08/07

Well..As I said here http://www.obesityhelp.com/forums/CA/a,messageboard/action,r eplies/board_id,4806/cat_id,4406/topic_id,3528623/ I don't agree or appreciate the way our fabulous new SYSK has chosen to deal with this little mix up. I'm not sure who died and made our fabulous new SYSK queen of SYSK but someone has and damnit I want her name so I can kick her butt!!! And being that you only chose me because I'm your "BEST" friend, not because I'm an inspiration in anyway and also because you just chose me at random I guess I don't deserve it. I think the person that deserves it is the person who told our last SYSK that she wasn't sorry for being so rude! She deserves it!!!!!! So April, awesome choice my BEST friend. I will be sure to hop right on over to her page and drop some words of support even though I'm not a supportive person because I don't post a lot on this board...And, let it be said that Diane did leave a wonderful message on my profile when I was SYSK and I really appreciated it so that is why I'm a bit weirded out by this whole experience but we all deserve to be in the spotlight MORE THAN ONCE in my opinion...Diane I really hope this is all just a misunderstanding and possibly just your frustrations magnified because I've always enjoyed reading your posts and seeing that smiling face of yours on your avatar. I just wish this could have been handled a little bit better. Being that I do consider these women my friends I take it personally as I'm sure you would if you felt your friends were being attacked. I personally let things roll off my back but not all of us are thick skinned so it is easy to misunderstand and take things the wrong way. Enjoy your time in the spotlight. Tiffany

April Henderson
on 2/14/08 3:22 am - Modesto, CA

RNY on 04/29/08

Was that a stab at me BFF???

Diane C.
on 2/14/08 12:00 am - Highland, CA

RNY on 12/11/06

As I written you before. I have already had both, and I decline your offer to make me SYSK. You obviously stepped yourself in a bunch of poop here, and guess the only way you could get out of it gracefully, is to make me the SYSK. SO in reference, I DECLINE your offer. I don't have to write any of your comments in bold because I am assuming that people can read for themselves. Not get over it sweetheart and finish your term out. Also can you please post a list with the names of who has had this position since the beginning of 2008. Put your energy into something a little more constructive ways instead of being such an ass about this situation. Also according to your profile you signed up on the board in 2002~ Now that sounds like quite a long time to be, long before I even thought about surgery. Ok enough is enough. Finish out your term, I and Stephaine wrote you extensively on how it worked, I think you can manage to get it correct this time. Now get off your soap box dear, and move on with your life.

April Henderson
on 2/14/08 3:23 am - Modesto, CA

RNY on 04/29/08

This is called OBESITY HELP. com. In 2002 I joined because I was FAT, not thinking about surgery. I didn't even start contemplating surgery until 2006. I didn't join the BOARDS until Nov or Dec.

Diane C.
on 2/14/08 7:16 am - Highland, CA

RNY on 12/11/06

April, I told you I was done, now grow up and forget this. If you can't. then you can PM me and we will settle things there, but I am no longer participating in this with you on this board. More than myself has asked that it stop. So what is it going to take you to stop?

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