Who's the Cruel Person who Posted THIS on MY BLOG!?!?!?
Don't let the fuckwits get you down. No matter where you post, no matter where you go, there will always be cowards who hide behind screen names and cause trouble.
I would say that *most* on this board are supportive, but not everyone. Ignore the people who post crap and pick & choose the advice.
Believe me, I feel a lot more comfortable here than I do in most places. I and a few other people had crappy plastic surgery and we were vilified over on PS Journeys for daring to speak out. Uh, isn't what the board is for?
There will always be idiots, there will always be shill names, there will always be those who just aren't worth your time. Block them or ignore them, and stick around. This place is worth it.
I would say that *most* on this board are supportive, but not everyone. Ignore the people who post crap and pick & choose the advice.
Believe me, I feel a lot more comfortable here than I do in most places. I and a few other people had crappy plastic surgery and we were vilified over on PS Journeys for daring to speak out. Uh, isn't what the board is for?
There will always be idiots, there will always be shill names, there will always be those who just aren't worth your time. Block them or ignore them, and stick around. This place is worth it.
You know what? My husband follows some forums of another nature. I'm always shocked by the immaturity and cruelty of some of the posts on there too. This is the new order of the web, honey. It brings out ******** and it brings out the asshole in some otherwise sane and rational people. It sucks, and disheartens me, but eventually, after sticking around awhile, you gain some perspective on it and learn to take what you can and walk away from the rest. I've been called some pretty hurtful things and unfounded things on here, but you know what? My husband loves me, my family loves me, my real friends love me and (most) of my students love me. I know I'm an okay kinda gal, so I've just learned to roll with it.
It's unfortunate this happened, but I'd suggest you just shrug it off as the rantings of one freak. Too many people take this all too seriously.
It's unfortunate this happened, but I'd suggest you just shrug it off as the rantings of one freak. Too many people take this all too seriously.
Julie R - Ludington, Michigan
Duodenal Switch 08/09/06 - Dr. Paul Kemmeter, Grand Rapids, Michigan
HW: 282 - 5'4"
SW: 268
GW: 135
CW: 125
Duodenal Switch 08/09/06 - Dr. Paul Kemmeter, Grand Rapids, Michigan
HW: 282 - 5'4"
SW: 268
GW: 135
CW: 125
Wow, that sorta scares me a little bit and suprises me. We share our home Addy's on here for clothing, protein and holiday swaps. We meet eachother.
Just the other day I had my first glass of white wine and posted dribble and everyone was SO kind and tolerant LOL. (yea, whooda thunk 1 glass, after food, hours later...yeesh, sorry guys)
I get there are judgemental people, knowitalls and people who just live off drama on forums, but to hunt down a blog and post that is leaning toward a true psychopath. I hope whoever they are get some help.
I hope for you that you stick around and stand your ground. This forum helps me day after day.
Just the other day I had my first glass of white wine and posted dribble and everyone was SO kind and tolerant LOL. (yea, whooda thunk 1 glass, after food, hours later...yeesh, sorry guys)

I get there are judgemental people, knowitalls and people who just live off drama on forums, but to hunt down a blog and post that is leaning toward a true psychopath. I hope whoever they are get some help.
I hope for you that you stick around and stand your ground. This forum helps me day after day.
5'1 HW 298 CW 118
"Making America skinny, one slap atta time!" -Slap Chop Dude
"Just the other day I had my first glass of white wine and posted dribble and everyone was SO kind and tolerant LOL."
Charity, this made me laugh...LOL Been there and done that with the one glass of wine. It's amazing how fast it will hit us now. My fingers have a way of running away with me when that happens too!
Charity, this made me laugh...LOL Been there and done that with the one glass of wine. It's amazing how fast it will hit us now. My fingers have a way of running away with me when that happens too!
Renee
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My DS SW/263 CW/136 GW/150
OMG Renee, I am glad it gave you a laugh!
Here's the kicker. I had to have my husband do the picture inserts because I am just not pc savvy anymore. After he was done, he found me curled up in a chair asleep/passed out and went ahead and posted it! LOL I was like, holy heck hon, did you even read the crap in that.
Nope he said.
Here's the kicker. I had to have my husband do the picture inserts because I am just not pc savvy anymore. After he was done, he found me curled up in a chair asleep/passed out and went ahead and posted it! LOL I was like, holy heck hon, did you even read the crap in that.
Nope he said.

5'1 HW 298 CW 118
"Making America skinny, one slap atta time!" -Slap Chop Dude
Ms. Cal Culator
on 12/7/10 1:26 am - Tuvalu
on 12/7/10 1:26 am - Tuvalu
Well, at least I'm in the clear! I mean...who would go to the trouble of making mean comments where almost no one could see them...not my style at all!
You must now tell all of us (or at least send me a PM and I promise to tell only one good friend) who it was!

