Sunday morning...
). I hope this is something the OH team can get corrected soon. Anyway, that is why I'll be adding a little color to my posts until they do. I think the eye..and the brain...needs subjects to be broken apart. It's kinda like listening to someone talk in a monotone voice...
Well..I have 2 incisions. One is ~12-14" long (vetical, starting at the end of the breastbone) and the other is ~3-4" (horizontal, along the TT line). I didn't end up showing Bill them but he did continue to be very supportive yesterday. I really do think he is regretting saying anything to his mother (or anyone else) about him being worried I'd get hooked on pain meds. Really, the man should darn well know better! This is ONLY the 16th surgery I've had since we've been together (and that is NOT including the 15 endo's!) and I hadn't gotten hooked on anything yet! Dinner went ok...except with me sleeping through meds time yesterday morning, it put them due again at 6 pm. Dinner started at 5. With the act of getting in & out of their car and walking into Red Lobster, I was sitting there watching my watch. My bil asked me what I was on for pain and I said 'just Vicodin'. He was like 'JUST Vicodin?' I explained to him the Vicodin may be fine for many things but with this, it just really wasn't cutting it. He made a little comment about how I should be careful taking it. Me sitting there watching the clock WAS being careful! Grrr. After I could take it, he and my mil kept asking me every 5 minutes if it had 'kicked in' yet..what? Did they think I was going to start dancing on the tables? Anyway, I made it through dinner ok and really did try to keep the conversation off of 'me'. I really didn't feel like talking. I didn't feel like eating either..and that's not a good thing when you are THERE! LOL! But I did get to enjoy my rice pilaf & stuffed flounder when we got home (I had gotten the sirloin steak too which I'll try to enjoy for lunch today). Bill reached under the table and held my hand. I thought that was so sweet. My sil brought me a get-well gift of wooden coasters that you put pictures in. It's pretty but I think I'd shoot anyone putting a sweaty glass on one of them..lol. Jean (my mil) made it clear that she didn't want all the employees to come over & sing so just our waiter brought 1 candle, knelt by her chair, lit the candle, and sung Happy Birthday to her. I thought it was very sweet of him to do that for her.
We have no big plans for today. Tiffany is going to pick up my Vicodin refill this morning. When I called her, she said 'already?'. So I explained to her that 2 tablets every 4 hours is 12 tablets a day and 1 fill was 30 tablets...so 2.5 days. She started apologizing...she didn't want me to think she thought I'd get hooked on them too...lol. I understand her surprise though. I have never had a post-op time to where I wasn't weaning myself off of them by the time of the 1st fill was gone. I'm just not able to do that this time around. Anyway, Bill mentioned last night of ordering chinese for dinner tonight. I know Tiff would be willing to cook, but maybe I'll have her set out some steaks for Tuesday night. I have my 1 week follow-ups tomorrow so we can pick up something while we're out probably. After we do get home tomorrow, I can talk her through setting the steaks up to marinade. I think she's getting a kick out of this because she's picking up some healthy cooking tips from me...not to mention trying out new stuff. She learned that she liked sauteed zuchinnin/yellow squash/onions with garlic & olive oil. She also liked the rice-a-roni cheesy rice (make it with EVOO instead of butter, and skim milk to thin it out abit if needed). It tastes alot like mac & cheese but healthier for you than pasta. When she cooked Friday night, I sat at the dining room table most of the time so I could keep her company...but that chair was comfortable & alot easier getting in & out of than my recliner is. Her dh was there though and he wouldn't shut up, go in the livingroom, and let me & Tiff talk. He seemed to think I was in there for him instead. He's a mumbler..and I hate having to strain to hear/understand every word that comes out of his mouth.
Okay..I wrote a book...again. I'm sorry. Guess I'm just chatty with my fingers today. LOL! I hope you all have a terrific day today!!
Huggs!
Sherri
PS...Did you set your clocks up an hour? Happy DST! AT GOAL!!
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Happy Sunday to all. I should be at church now, but we forgot to set our clocks forward, so I'm just lucky I got up in time to get ready for work in time. Actually I didn't, my mom called, LOL. How are you all doing? I hope well. We found out yesterday that everything is set with the hospital for Mikey. We will take him down there on Tuesday this week. Couldn't go today, because I guess there's a ton of snow from yesterday, and they don't want non-emergency vehicles on the roads. Tuesday will be a better day anyway. We can meet the teachers and regular weekday staff. I'm still nervous about it. I hope it helps him. We haven't told him yet. Haven't figured out how to. I know we have to, just don't know what to say. I'm afraid if we told him before hand he would just refuse to get in the car, or worse, would run off. I don't know. I work at Sears today. I'm going to try to get to go early, to spend some extra time with the whole family. You know? They are pretty accommodating, so I hope that's not a problem. Other than that, not too much is going on with me. I'm still stuck around 160 pounds,... the stress is not helping that. Maybe I'll get a walk in today. That would be good.
!!! I just try to tell myself it's not personal, and go on, because I do like my job for the most part, but sometimes the state makes it hard to do our jobs.
. I plan on cleaning out my files from last year, and start new ones for "08" guess better late than never. I might go see Phil, not sure he does a PT on Sunday"s.
Sending Healthy Wishes to all. Love Ya.
Hugs & Blessings, Gail
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Happy Sunday to all, my what colorfull boards we have! Peter and I didn't go to church today, but not because of the time change. He is still a little concerned about close contact with people, and with every one wanting to shake hands, he decided it was best to stay home. Plus, sometimes people go to church when they are 'sick' to get some 'healing' and he just didn't wnat to take that chance. I miss going, but don't like to go with out him. Once we get back from dr on tuesday, we'll see what they say about church and going out in public.
We did go out to Hacienda yesterday with the kids. Peter wears his 'duck bill' mas****il we sit at the table, and he sits by the wall to have as little contact with the staff as possible. Doc said eating out was O****ill he goes in for his transplant, then it's 18 months of no eating out or take out foods (guess I better learn to cook all over again). You should see the people that stare when he's wearing his mask, mom's tell there kids to get closer to them in a panic, it's almost comical in a wierd way. When we were at IU Med everyone and thier grandmother were wearing masks of some sort, in Hospital, restaurants, and hotels, you just don't see that around here. Tomorrow we head to Indy for his bone marrow biopsy (ouch)
and spend the night there for Tuesday he is having all his pre-transplant tests and classes.
So we will have our brains on information over-load once again, and I will be the one to try and retain it all (HA! I'm the one with the worst memory, this should be fun). Of course, they will give us all sorts of hand-outs for our leisurely reading, so we will survive.
Weight...UGHHHHHHHHH! I'm back up to 205 with all this emotional mess, and all the sitting around. I really need to get to do some exercise soon or I will go NUTS! I can't afford to go to Curves right now, medical bills are up the wazoo right now, it's too cold to walk outside (not to mention way too muddy at my place). If I were to go and walk the malls, I would shop instead because if I don't eat as a crutch, I shop. I'm hoping that once the campground opens I will be able to work off some of this mess with all the running around the campground. When we're back at Indy, I will be able to use the 'gym' in the hotel, I just need to get offf my duff and do it.
Well, It's sure nice to have a moment to write on the boards!! Good to 'see' everyone! Sherri, I'm glad all is going well with you! Don't worry about the Vicodin! Before I had my back surgery I was on Vicodin and Oxy for over 2 years (had a broken vertabrae, and not to mention 2 different muscle relaxers) and I never got hooked. Was off all meds within 2 weeks of surgery! Once you make up your mind you don't want to be addicted, you won't be! Gail, thanks for the card! Your'e a sweetheart! When I'm parked in Indy, I will get together with you locals for lunch again. There will be time where Peter will only be able to have short visits, so I will have time to go out.
You guys are all angles in my book, thanks for all the prayers and well wishes!! Havea great Sunday! HOPE 2 Chronicles 16:9
For the eyes of the Lord run to and fro throughout the whole earth, to shew himself strong in the behalf of them whose heart is perfect toward him. Herein thou has done foolishly: therefore from henceforth thou shalt have wars.
