Today

That's great that you and your DH talked about this surgery together. It really is a family event and affects everyone. I totally forgot about my spouses feelings when I was going through this process, and even now the poor guy freaks out when I get sick and I can't figure it out, until I remember what he had to see. You are going to do awsome, you will be in great hands, and can't wait to see the post that you have a date!! Good luck, ask lots of questions, and hang on for the ride of your life.

Yes it was very nice to talk about it with him.  He is a major part of this decision.  Yes, you have been through alot.  I really appreciated Glass's time today.  He stayed and answered all our questions.  Before he left he said, "Well I guess the next time I will see you is on the surgery table!"  That was kinda freaky to hear but makes it so real.