Feeling pretty bummed.....
Pam,
I know how you feel. My husband is against the surgery but says he will be supportive of me for doing it. I too am doing something just for me and am being selfish about doing it. It's all for me. My last worry is eating christmas dinner right now it's being there for christmas this year and the next and so on.
Don't let him get you down. This is for you! Stay Strong.
Hugs,
Bel