WHATS HAPPENING FOR SATURDAY
Well I finally got it. The seen on tv advertised, supper dupper , easy way to reduce that belly fat machine. The ab lounger. Now doesn’t that sound like it is easy to do.? Lounger? That is a misnomer if there ever was one. You don’t lounge, It seemed so easy I did 20 of the situps right away. And then turned on my side and did 10 and turned on the other side and did 10 Oh MY GOODNESS I am so sore. Lol But I guess if we have learned anything with this surgery it is that nothing worth having is that easy to get right.
I know that it wont really get rid of the flabby skin I have but im looking for it to help me regain some of the muscle tone I have lost.
I did lots of yard work today , wasn’t it a beautiful day? I hope everyone had this beautiful weather. Janet they say a whole week of no rain starting Monday. There is a chance on Sunday.
The mosquitoes are about to eat me alive. Are they as bad every where as they are here?
Sure wish I had the back porch screened in. We really intended to get that done this year and so far we haven’t done it. Oh well there is always Mosquito spray.
TAMMY: So are you and Brenda still comeing to Julys COF meeting? Sure hope so we are looking forward to seeing you again.
You are doing really well since surgery. And yes it is a learning process to get all the protein in and all the water in too. It is really hard at first and then it gets easier and easier.
Don’t worry about using a different doctor now that you are post op. It will be ok and you might even have a good repose with him/her. I guess Dr. Scott just has too much to do to handle everyone.
Oh I know you will really be excited about going to get your granddaughter. Maybe you can just keep her lol. Well they said as long as you wanted didn’t they?
Luv and hugs to you too Tammy.
CHELLE: WOW 2 MORE DAYS It almost seems unreal doesn’t it? I remember those days it was so neat , remember every minute of it and enjoy it too.
Well grandma did you all hear the heartbeat of the new baby?
Your right when this baby is ready to play on the floor you will be able too also. It is so neat. I don’t have any trouble getting down or woudnt if it wasn’t for my knees. Theywill only bend so far. I guess I am going to have to go get them fixed.
JANET: OH PLEASE Honey don’t not come on here. We love you and know that you have your plate full but where else to spill it all at than here? We understand and I look forward to your post every day. At least your life is far from boreing lol. You do so many things and are involved in so much. Not everything in life is good you know. We are here for you to lay it all out and look at it. Sometimes when you vent like that it helps make it not quite as bad. And I for one don’t care to listen to you. It is great and wonderful that you feel that you are among enough friends that you feel save venting to us.
Susan sounds like another Sugar case doesn’t she? I hope they find what it is with her sooner than they did with Sugar.
I hope the baby kitty makes it thru all that is wrong with it. Sounds like she has a lot of strikes against her already.
Tell Melissa that we are all still praying for her. I think they are wearing her out running her back and forth. Looks like as sick as she is they could have home health come and do her IV therapy. Wonder why they didn’t?
Oh my gosh , you want all of us to come out and help you beat the c—p out of the new SIL? That was really crappy of him to quit that quick. Doesn’t she get it? He intends for her to make the living and go to school and when she gets her degree will live off her. Seen it , been there done that and he is so obvious about it. He isnt even trying to hide it is he? So is she working somewhere? How are they going to support themselves? Or how is she going to support the two of them?
Hopefully we are suppose to be dry for the next week , I will pray for NO Rain for you so your water can get fixed. That is so bad that it cant be done with all the water you have on the outside you cant get any on the inside.
Sounds like you got some good buys at walmart yesterday with the school supplies and the clothes.
Enjoy what ever you decide to do on your birthday. Say when is it , it isnt on my birthday list….July or August? Oh yeah it is it is in December 26th. Sorry..I thought it was real soon. And 40 sure isnt old. Wait sweetie till you are my age . 40 sounds like a child to me.
LANA: It was a little foggy here this morning but not misty. The sun came up and soon melted the fog away.
Oh yeah that is the reason I love babies so much now. I can say Here mom take this sweet little thing lol
I think we need to restart the prayer post daily to help everyone remember to pray for our sick and hurting members. Don’t you?
We still are having way too many to be sick. The devil is still trying to get his hands in here and make things bad.
Tammy was that you that use to do the prayer post before you had surgery?
We need to remember Melissa, Susan, Janet, & all of the ones missing , Sherr, Vesta, Debbie M. , all of our new post-ops and all of our pre ops that will be having surgery in a couple of days. I know I will be praying for all of these and more. Hope all of you will join me in the prayers too.
LOVE AND JOY AND PEACE ABOUNDS
JAN
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GOD BLESS YOU TODAY
JAN COOK
Dear Jan and OH Friends, Well, First things first-I still have NO CLUE whats wrong with our Susan. I am frustrated-and scared for her. I called her room two different times and got no answer-and her hubby, Rory had their cell phone and had to leave a voice mail because he had to go to work. Was hoping for word back by last night, but nothing. I did TRY with the nurses station, and of course-nothing-but I already knew in my heart I wouldnt get any info-so I just asked them to tell her when they went into her room to tell her that her sister, Janet called her twice and that I loved her and am praying for her. I sure wish that I A. Had a vehicle to get up to see her that wouldnt cost $300 round trip B. Was able to afford to go and see her and C. Could physically survive a long trip like that with my back so bad, if I had the vehicle and money..*sigh* would do almost anything to give her a big old hug and stay with her for a few days. Sending cards often just doesnt seem like very much, to me. Please continue to keep her in your prayers. I think I will go ahead and start another prayer post, and yes, Tammy had been doing it pre-op-but I think your right, Jan-I think we need it-and then we can all be praying and the devil can kiss our butts!
I got a call from Terry (Mels hubby) on my way home last night and told Darrel to answer the phone and let them know I would call when I got home (was driving)....we were also coming up on a pretty bad accident and so I really didnt want to be on the phone-anyhow-got home and asked Mike to call Terry to see what was going on-and I was laying down on the couch with ice on my back and heating pad on my knees (think its the weather) so-anyway-Mel fell backwards and hit her head really hard on the end table-and then a few minutes later-got the dry heeves-and also was really out of it-and Terry couldnt keep her awake.....I asked Mike for the phone and told Terry to WAKE HER UP-she cannot sleep IF she has a concussion (sp?) and she just hit her head 20 minutes ago....He couldnt get her to wake easily-and I asked to talk to her-I had to repeat myself 3 times and she wasnt really understanding what I was saying or why. I told Terry to get her to the ER OR to call the EMT's out to the house IF she wouldnt or couldnt get to the car to get to the hospital.....He said when she first fell, she really didnt want to go-and I told him that she needed to. I laid on the couch and stayed awake until the news was over-and woke up this morning at 4 to a letter from Mike saying that she did have a concussion and was on her way home and Terry just had to keep an eye on her. Please keep her in your prayers.
Found out that our little kitty may not make it. IF she lives through the weekend, she may have a chance, but its really not looking so hot. We have done everything in mans power for her-so now its in Gods hands. It really stinks not to be able to really love on her or anything and keep her in that house. I just want to pick her up and cuddle her and make her feel secure and happy. I keep telling the boys that as soon as she gets better, they can play with her and she will be allowed to sleep with them if she wants to-but for right now-because she is so sick, she has to stay in there and that we cant let them get sick or the bunny.....they understand-and check on her often and I let them pet her when we were giving her her medicine last night and cleaning her eye again. It looked so good yesterday (her eye)-and she did eat some-but not a whole bunch. I brought out some canned food I bought her just to make sure she got something to eat. If her eye is good today-wont have to give her any more drops-or clean it out-so thats good. The wound from the snake bite is scabbing up some-and we didnt put anymore ointment on it-they said she will take care of it on her own. So far, so good. I checked on her this morning and she was still alive-so please just keep her in your prayers too. Had to go get kitty her medicine from the vet-did that and Steph had called and asked for a pr of her jeans from her bedroom-went and got them and took them to work for her, since it was right by Walmart, stopped and got 25 more notebooks and 4 more packets of filler paper. While I was at Pizza Inn, I saw both of my girls AND Aaron-told Aaron that I couldnt TALK to him right then-but we WOULD be talking this weekend and that I wasnt happy-he then tried to give me a hug-and I put my hand out and told him-I love you-but I am angry with you right now-and I do not want to give you a hug. He started telling me about all these jobs he has lined out and applied for-and I simply told him-YOU had a good job-YOU were union with awesome benefits and made good money! I dont want to hear about what you have lined up anymore~I want YOU to stop being a quitter and take care of your responsibilities and Megan is one of them and I was sick of seeing her work her tail off while he sits on his fat ass and doesnt care to work for anything-and that he puts more effort into worrying about what fast food place he is going to eat at-then he does life and being responsible. He made the mistake of saying to me "Someone isnt in a good mood today" and I was so mad-I started to cry and that made me madder. He kept trying to tell me it would be okay-and I told him I just dont believe you anymore-Im sorry.
On a brighter note-I AM GOING to have a good weekend here with my husband and my boys. We are going to do a lot today together as soon as I am done bringing the Suburban over to Megan and Aaron for them to load it and get moved. Depending on the weather-Jon wants to help me finish mowing around the RC track...I told him he could ride with me-and then he really is into playing horseshoes now-and we are going to do that AND swim-IF it doesnt rain. The weather last night said no rain until Tues-but I can feel the weather in my joints and they arent letting up-so I dont know if its just rolling in now-or what-but I hope the weather stays nice this weekend. I dont even think about the main water line anymore-it will get done when it gets done-so.....will just be happy to have the washer when I need it-and live with everything else until it gets fixed-right?
**Jan-that Ab lounger-it doesnt hurt while your using it? So, is it something with my back that I would be able to handle? If you dont mind my asking-how much was it? I see them at garage sales and such once in awhile-but havent thought about it-since it looks like it would be too much for my back.
The mosquitos are horrid this year-along with the fleas-and I dont understand that since we got such severe freezes last winter-how those fleas multiplied from last year? Anyhow-we are going to be using seven dust in the yards that the dogs and kids play in-and for the mosquitos-I usually use the spray from Avon. I havent bought any so far this year and cant remember the name. I want to say SSS, but I dont think thats correct. Of course, Im from Minnesota-and the sqeeters are horrible up there-its their state bird, you know-LOL....so its not that bad to me down here-just irratating-but up there you cant keep track of how many land on you at once or how many bites you get-its awful and they have them pretty bad right now too.
Megan has worked since she turned 16-she ALWAYS has had a job-and sometimes 3 at a time-PLUS has gone to school full time. That girl is not lazy-and I admire her for working hard for what she wants-I have always taught my children that IF they want something bad enough-they will work for it. Nothing in life is free-and we have always had people in our life that were good examples of what you get in life-IF you wont work for it-which is nothing. I guess thats what upsets me-he lies about work, cant keep a job-and they NEVER have ANY money-because he doesnt hold a job-he was happy he at least had his drivers position at Pizza Inn, and no offense-told him that wasnt going to put food on the table, thats for sure-and with gas prices the way they are-they really arent making any money from him working that job-since it all goes to wear and tear on the car and gas.
They did try to get Home Health Care in there for Mel and her IV therapy-but they wouldnt cover the antibiotic-since it is very expensive-so she is stuck going over to Joplin until the 20th of this month. The hospital that is 3 blocks from her house-they TRIED to get that hospital to do it daily-but none of their doctors would volunteer to take her as a patient. So-she has to do it this way-which is hard, I know. It was so expensive in pill form, that medicare wouldnt cover most of it-and Mel wouldnt have been able to afford it-so this is how it has to be. I just hope that once all of that is said and done-that she is back to herself again.
**Erin-I am so happy for you about your house AND job-you deseve it so much and I am so happy to hear good things are happening for you. Couldnt happen to a nicer person, thats for sure. Please email me your new address when you have time, ok? Love you and will keep you in my prayers.
**Tammy-that "new" doc that fills in for Dr. Scott-he actually is filling in for ALL of the doctors in that office once you are post op. He just happens to be Natalies husband to top it off. Im sure he is really nice-but all the same-I WANT to see Dr. Fearing since I have to travel that far. IF I cant see her at my year check up-I will just go to my doc here and get weighed and get my labs and they can fax the info up there. I am not traveling that far to see a stranger! Anyway-Dr. Fearing told me about him at my 6 month check up-and I did relay to her that I wouldnt come up IF I couldnt see her- I WILL still go to the doctor and get my weight and labs-BUT-I will do it here at home and save that long trip-one of the reasons I dont mind taking that trip is because I get to see her and I love her dearly.....Anyway-I hope you like him and Im sure he is good and nice-dont see Natalie married to a butt.
**Chelle-so-did you hear the heartbeat? Also, keep meaning to ask you-is this the daughter that lives with you? I hope everything went well-and look forward to seeing your post and reading all about it....Are you getting excited? 2 more days left. YAY...I bet you are. I am keeping you in prayer. I love you and I hope you have a wonderful weekend.
**Rianne-sounds like you had fun with your mom and I am glad everything worked out with the financial part-and that they didnt make you pay that much!! My heart would have stopped!! Glad it worked out. I heard that Wild Hogs was halarious. Susan said she thought she was going to wet her pants a couple of times. I cant wait to see it-I love a good comedy-Heck-may not even rent it-may just buy it and get it over with, if its something we would watch over and over. My dad took my oldest son to see it and he said it was funny and he would watch it again! 2 more days girl-what are you doing this weekend to pass the time? I am keeping you in prayer and take care. Love ya!
**Lana-thanks for the offer to help with Aaron-you and Jan both offered....but Im sure it will be ok. I cant live her life for her-if I could-the marriage wouldnt have happened in the first place, BUT, we THOUGHT maybe he was turning over a new leaf, since this job lasted a little longer than the others-heck, he was almost out of his probation period and she would have had her insurance in 2 weeks. I told Aaron last night that he cant put down Megans biological dad anymore-since Aaron doesnt keep a job either and doesnt keep his promises he makes to Megan to help her with insurance and to take care of her-told him that I think of him the same way I think of Megans biological dad-at least her dad worked up until we got divorced-same job, with insurance for 14 years! It will be ok. Thanks for the prayers. Love ya.
I wish we knew were some of our regulars are-Like Connie, Sherr, Cindy, Vesta, Deb (both), Andrew, Julia and the others-Im bad about remembering all the names until I actually hit the button to post it-LOL
Isnt it great to see so many newbies and them getting their dates? There are so many newbies-that I cant keep track of them or their situations again-so I got another notebook to help me out with that. I get frustrated sometimes, because I will just get one straightened out-and they disappear and I find myself trying to remember.....so hopefully the notebook will help and I hope they will stick around. I always invite them to post here. Love to get to know them and follow them through their journeys and help out IF I can with advice and whatever. Havent been on much except to do the morning posts-but I hope to have some more time next week, maybe. Have been spending the little bit of time I do have trying to get more done on my book....Originally I thought I would have it done by August, but then I didnt anticipate everything going to crap-so.....now I am not giving myself a deadline-just doing what I can when I can.
Jan, thanks for saying you would miss me. I love talking to you guys-you are like family to me. I think right now I just feel a little discouraged and I dont like feeling like this. My hubby even noticed that things may be on overload-because he said he wished he could take me away from it all-and wished he could fix everything. I know he would-heck, I would too. I know it will get better soon, just have to hang in there and not let it get me down. Well, I am gonna go-have to get back on the ice/heat already-have been up since a little before 4 and want to see if I cant get some relief before my guys get up....I hope everyone has a wonderful weekend. All my love and prayers-Janet


Tammy~Ammy
~~~Happiness is being Christa's Nanna~~~
Start~474lbs /Now~285 /Goal~200lbs
Surgery:06~04~07 Total~191 lbs down!
Afternoon All... I just came in from the great outdoors to get something to eat and rehydrate. I see everyones staying busy! Myself?...I have been busier than a one legged man in a butt kickin contest! I have also had some health issues but nothing the Lord and I can't handle! I finally (at least I hope so) got rid of that rash...man, I didn't think it would ever go away. I have a few areas that are still dark colored but at least they aren't flaming red and driving me crazy like they were! I cancelled my appt. with Dr. H for the 17th...I think I may have reached my sweet spot. I want to give it a little longer before he tries to add more saline.
Prayers are going out for those that are ill, back in the hospital, having issues with family and/or friends, pre-surgs as well as for the post-surgs. and for all the others that have been layed on my heart to pray for.
I have been working on an invention that I have came up with to help keep kids from being abducted or worse! I can't say too much about it yet but I ask that you all pray that it works out and our kids will be free to play outside without fear...like we use too! If it works out the way I think it might, I will be asking you guys for your signatures on a petition/poll...too show how many parents, grandparents and so on would be interested in the item. Between the flooding waters and the heat...my garden is having a heck of a time trying to grow and produce. Maybe, it just wasn't meant to be this year! Well, time to go back out and get all hot and sweaty again! Who needs to work out?....all I have to do is walk out on my porch and stand there a few minutes!...lol Jan...I'm not sure if the mosquiters are worst this year or not. They eat me alive every year. Ours DO seem to be bigger this year! Either way girl...you have my sympathy! I did want to ask a question and some people might get a little upset over it and I'm sorry for that but with us having so many of our girls and guys probably too getting sick and having to go back into the hospital because of the drains they are getting. Shouldn't something be said? What about calling our Drs (the ones that don't do the drains for wls) and see if they can think of a way to get these Drs (the ones that do put drains in for wls) to stop using them? Maybe invite them up to see a few surgeries without the drains being used? They could see how much better off the ones are that didn't have drains used on them? I know not everyone has problems with the drains but if they causing so many people problems, maybe they shouldn't be used anymore, especially knowing that the wls can be done without them? I will climb down off my soapbox now! Again, I'm sorry if I offended anyone, I didn't mean too. I just hate seeing anyone have to go back in the hospital after getting surgery. I didn't get to read all the posts...I will try later! I love you guys and don't worry about me, I'm doing fine. Just trying to get caught up with my yardwork since the rash is gone and it's not as hot....now I will probably go back out and will be like a furnace out there!....lol Anyway, Love & Prayers, Deb M



