Update on Jason, Wendy and us...

Well, there isn't a lot to tell about yet! They went to the ER the other night and the ER doc told them that she may be leaking but not enough to worry about! Jason has lost his job and is getting their car repo'ed at anytime! Her parents aren't helping at all. Wendy's Mom is blaming everything on Jason and this is causing Jason to get very depression, not to mention what's it's doing to Wendy! I opened my mouth and said something that I'm afraid I might regret later but I keep telling myself, it would be for a short time! With them having all the problems they are having down there, I mentioned to Jason to call our pastor to see if anyone out there has a trailor that we could pull on this property temporally, then I told him to pack up everything and head this way. We have great baby Drs up here and a wonderful children's hospital as well. There is just too much junk going on down there for either of them to have any peace.  I just don't want David and myself to lose any peace either! Jason hung up, talked with Wendy and then called back asking if they could borrow the truc****il they can get on there feet but we can't do that because if it rains David will be taking the car or truck leaving me with the other! If Jason and Wendy took it...I could be standed here for a week or more without a vehicle of my own. We understand their problem but if we can't hurt oursleves, trying to help them! I think their best bet is to come on up and at least let them look around. I could run them up to the hospital so they could meet the Drs and the hospital where they would be delivering Adam. That is where they are going to be sent anyway when it comes time for her to deliver no matter where they will be living. Jason will be able to find good work with good pay, here in town. Something he can't seem to do down there. I sure hope that I don't regret my invitation later on though. Our house stays pretty peacful when the kids aren't living here. We don't need any drama! I might call our pastor to see if he knows any one with a small trailor that we can hook up out back....so we can keep our peace and they will have there's! What do you guys think? Anyone know of anyone that has a trailor that I could borrow?...lol It would probably be needed through the beginning of next year! Wendy is due Dec 6th and with whatever happens, she will need time to heal. As for me....I'm doing okay...the neck is a little sore and bruised but I will be okay! We should know the results of my biopsies, next week sometime! David has been on vacation since last Sunday, he goes back to work this Monday!! I really enjoy having him home with me! We have done absolutely nothing this whole week but enjoy one another! Thank you Lord! Can you believe the outcome of "so you think you can dance?" Lacey should of got it! I think the only reason she didn't was because her brother, Benji won it last year! It just wasn't fair, neither of the last two dancers were good enough to of won but that's my opinion! Love & Prayers for ALL, Deb M

Hi Deb: I think you are doing what I would do. Jason is still your child and I think you have unconditional love! I believe with a place of their own, you will both have peace of mind. I believe they will have more pride that way too. They also need time alone. Your all in my prayers and I know you will know the right thing to do. God bless you for the offer!!!!!