a new person on here trying to find her way

WHEN THERE SO MANY BLOCKERS IN THE WAY BUT WE MANAGING. SHE IS WAITING FOR HEHELLO ALL I AM ON HERE TRYING TO SHOW SUPPORT FOR MY MATE WHEN IT IS VERY HARD R INS. APPROVAL BUT WHILE WAITING ON THAT WE FACING HER MOM ILLNESS TAKING A HOLD OF HER AND I TRY TO BE THERE FOR HER AS MUCH AS I CAN BUT WITH FAMILIES ILLNESS AND WORKING TO MAKE IT . I SOMETIMES I FEEL THAT I AM NOT GIVEN HER THE PROPER SUPPORT OR SOMETHING I DONT KNOW WHAT I AM DOING WRONG SO I THOUGHT I COME ON HERE CUZ SHE SAID THIS WERE SHE COMES TO TALK OR GET SUPPORT.  FOR ALL THAT BEEN HELPING US THREW THIS ROUGH ROAD AND BEEN BLESSING US THANK YOU AND GOD BLESS

You are making the effort by trying to show support. Sometimes, we are not aware of how much it means to the other person, but the fact that you are there being supportive, helps. You may not be doing anything wrong.  You have heard the expression, "you wouldnt understand, its a jeep thing"; well in this case it might be: "you wouldnt understand its a fat thing" We have our mindset and it is hard for us to change. It is a rough road, and the curves can be dangerous, but keep supporting.

I do understand were shes coming from my bmi is 39. I have been big most of my life an try alot of weight programs also but no help really. I'm doing the shakes wit  her now cuz her doc. want her to get her bmi a lil lower before surgery. Its not a fat thing an not understand, I understand completely just me personally scared of surgey. I'm just bless that she have the strength to do this. thanks for all response an we will keep ya posted when we get the answer form ins.

Sounds like she has a wonderful husband helping her, and we will always be here for you and yours.. God tells us sometimes it is the darkest right before dawn...so you both can lean on us anytime.. we are here for you...lots of love to you both....vesta ps... You are there for her and that is the most important thing...

how wonderful for you to care sooo much that you wondered in here! good for you! sounds like yall are having a rough time....it will get better! just keep doing what you are doing and it will get better! lots of hugs and reassurance from you will be a big help to your supportee nutti

 

Lonely...Just hang in there and keep being supportive....This is sometimes a long and bumping road to travel....She is very luck to have such great support!!! Your both in my prayers.....Hugs..Tammy~ammy

Welcome to YOU!  And thank you for being supportive.  It means a lot to her, I know it does.