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Susie....I have tried to give KIND word to her....but to me she just dont want to listen....
Now tell the truth....when you were 4 weeks out did you eat CHIPS???? I not sure that you did.....but I do know that your very focused on what you want...right?? That would be to lose your weight from all the time that you were weak....right??? Yes we have all been there are some are still there.....but at least we are tring to do things right this time....
Ask yourself this.....after all the pain and suffering that you went through after surgery......would you have gone and ate FROG LEGS, FRIED FOODS AND PASTA??? Oh shoot no you wouldnt have and thats just my point.
Your devestated that you have gain this week....and rightfully so! Because you have done things the way there suppose to be done. Now Misty on the other hand....just dont want to get it through her skull that the days of loading the carbs on the dinner, lunch plate are no longer there, unless she wants to hurt herself....and right now thats exactly what she is doing.
I can not be nice to someone that comes back time after time and asks when can I have chips and pasta!!! It just dont make sense to me and that I can not say Im sorry for....
Now tell the truth....when you were 4 weeks out did you eat CHIPS???? I not sure that you did.....but I do know that your very focused on what you want...right?? That would be to lose your weight from all the time that you were weak....right??? Yes we have all been there are some are still there.....but at least we are tring to do things right this time....
Ask yourself this.....after all the pain and suffering that you went through after surgery......would you have gone and ate FROG LEGS, FRIED FOODS AND PASTA??? Oh shoot no you wouldnt have and thats just my point.
Your devestated that you have gain this week....and rightfully so! Because you have done things the way there suppose to be done. Now Misty on the other hand....just dont want to get it through her skull that the days of loading the carbs on the dinner, lunch plate are no longer there, unless she wants to hurt herself....and right now thats exactly what she is doing.
I can not be nice to someone that comes back time after time and asks when can I have chips and pasta!!! It just dont make sense to me and that I can not say Im sorry for....
Cor
Susie,
Have you missed the other posts from Misty where people WERE NICE? People TRIED? PEOPLE WANTED TO HELP? GO back through and read them ALL. Every one of us came through loving, caring and supportive-Misty basically told us to screw off and she would not be back to post-because she cant have pasta and sugar-and she wanted the F****ng surgery undone! Im sorry, Susie, but "I" and most of the other members on this board-are not going to sit and listen to her pass the buck over and over again-she NEEDS to pull her head out and get it on straight. Its NOT ABOUT CHEATING, Susie-its about her life-and getting off her rear and reading her book-which she wont do! When you ate your pork rinds-did you get on here and blame your doctor? No, YOU TOOK RESPONSIBILITY-as you should! Thats ALL we are trying to do-is get Misty to take responsibility for her life and her health. I refuse to feel bad-and TRUST ME-I wasnt being mean.....I couldnt post what I really was thinking! Im not going to stroke and coddle someone-and feel sorry for them, when she has had all of us behind her and came back on us the way she did. Sorry. Im sorry if it offended you, too, Susie-MAYBE YOU CAN GET THROUGH TO HER-because the rest of us arent having any luck-if you can-kuddos to you-but your right-we ALL have our own ideas, our own thoughts- and our own opinions-when a ? has been asked several times, just because you dont like the answer-doesnt mean its not the right one, right? NONE of us are saying we are better than she is-NONE of us is saying we havent cheated, NONE of us is saying that we didnt have emotional issues over saying goodbye to foods we love-NONE of us is saying that to her......What we ARE SAYING, is IT IS TIME FOR HER TO READ HER BOOK QUIT WITH THE COP-OUTS and PASSING THE BUCK and GET IT TOGETHER, BEFORE ITS TOO LATE! Now, if you havent seen her other posts-I would go and read them and you will fully understand where the rest of us are coming from. No hard feelings here-but Im NOT being mean-Im being honest and I will NOT feel bad about that-and I support Cor 100%-as do the rest of us....... Im sorry Susie.
Have you missed the other posts from Misty where people WERE NICE? People TRIED? PEOPLE WANTED TO HELP? GO back through and read them ALL. Every one of us came through loving, caring and supportive-Misty basically told us to screw off and she would not be back to post-because she cant have pasta and sugar-and she wanted the F****ng surgery undone! Im sorry, Susie, but "I" and most of the other members on this board-are not going to sit and listen to her pass the buck over and over again-she NEEDS to pull her head out and get it on straight. Its NOT ABOUT CHEATING, Susie-its about her life-and getting off her rear and reading her book-which she wont do! When you ate your pork rinds-did you get on here and blame your doctor? No, YOU TOOK RESPONSIBILITY-as you should! Thats ALL we are trying to do-is get Misty to take responsibility for her life and her health. I refuse to feel bad-and TRUST ME-I wasnt being mean.....I couldnt post what I really was thinking! Im not going to stroke and coddle someone-and feel sorry for them, when she has had all of us behind her and came back on us the way she did. Sorry. Im sorry if it offended you, too, Susie-MAYBE YOU CAN GET THROUGH TO HER-because the rest of us arent having any luck-if you can-kuddos to you-but your right-we ALL have our own ideas, our own thoughts- and our own opinions-when a ? has been asked several times, just because you dont like the answer-doesnt mean its not the right one, right? NONE of us are saying we are better than she is-NONE of us is saying we havent cheated, NONE of us is saying that we didnt have emotional issues over saying goodbye to foods we love-NONE of us is saying that to her......What we ARE SAYING, is IT IS TIME FOR HER TO READ HER BOOK QUIT WITH THE COP-OUTS and PASSING THE BUCK and GET IT TOGETHER, BEFORE ITS TOO LATE! Now, if you havent seen her other posts-I would go and read them and you will fully understand where the rest of us are coming from. No hard feelings here-but Im NOT being mean-Im being honest and I will NOT feel bad about that-and I support Cor 100%-as do the rest of us....... Im sorry Susie.
YEPPPPEEEE... JANET YOU GO GIRL!!!!!!!Misty....again....all I can say is get on the phone or email or something and see if you can get the facts right...ok....I really feel like something is not connecting here....and I really trying to be nice, but its really getting on my last nerve that your not even understanding what your doing....
Your in the right place for answers and for asking questions, but you have to be willing to make the changes and follow instructions from the Dr. And I dont want to hear that you were NOT told!! Because I simplely do not beleive that!
Now either get some help and get things going on the right path....or dont expect to come on here and get any one to feel sorry for you....at least I for one dont feel sorry for you....quit was our time trying to help you when you dont want to help yourself...
oh ond one more thing.....How in the world do you think that you could even think about going in to the Home Health Care field and helping them....when you can even follow the instructions laid out for you for WLS???? I know this....I wouldnt have you taking care of my dogs much less my family in need....I would be scared that you couldnt follow the instructions that was given to ya.....To tell ya the truth....Im not sure that your compitant(sp) enough to do that field.....its scary.....sorry but true!!!
Cor
Well, for what it's worth(I'm her angel) the last time I talked to her she said she wasn't going to post here again. So I'm surprised to see her here.
I've spoken to her and we've emailed each other about issues. I don't know what else to do.
Misty, hun, if you're reading this, please get out the white binder Dr. H. gave you and read it, cover to cover, over and over. If there is something you don't understand, ask someone.
Try to not think about what you can no londer do; instead, focus on what you will be able to do that you can't do now.
Patty
I've spoken to her and we've emailed each other about issues. I don't know what else to do.
Misty, hun, if you're reading this, please get out the white binder Dr. H. gave you and read it, cover to cover, over and over. If there is something you don't understand, ask someone.
Try to not think about what you can no londer do; instead, focus on what you will be able to do that you can't do now.
Patty
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