You bring up so many good points that I believe are critical for success as a post-op patient. The issue of meeting in a location that may be perceived as bad is a good one. I think people perceive many sports bars and casual eateries as bad spots. The reality is that most offer healthy options. If you can not dine with 8-12 post-op WLS patients and make good choices, then you need their support. I see this happen all the time in my cycling group.

The social and sporting activities are also critical for success. Today, we meet in a clinical setting at the hospital. I think we need to offer outside diversions that attract people and challenge them to step outside of the clinical safe space. I think 2+ year people are very open and ready for this type of situation.