Domestics update
so we went to court and he not only has to pay his regular support, but has to come up with $500 by march 8 and another $500 by april 11. if he doesnt come up with that, which totals almost $1800,then they will issue a warrant for his arrest. I guess we'll see what happens.
And I agree, Siehara is much better off not having him in her life. He is very unpredictable as far as work, reliability, etc. He used to drink, so I would have to assume that he still does. He was never a violent drunk, but I can't take a chance of him being drunk around her and G-d forbid taking her in a car or something. OMG I would KILL HIM. Yes, I'll keep the visits the way they are.. very far and few between.
thx for the support everyone!!
And I agree, Siehara is much better off not having him in her life. He is very unpredictable as far as work, reliability, etc. He used to drink, so I would have to assume that he still does. He was never a violent drunk, but I can't take a chance of him being drunk around her and G-d forbid taking her in a car or something. OMG I would KILL HIM. Yes, I'll keep the visits the way they are.. very far and few between.
thx for the support everyone!!
so I was just checking my bank account and noticed another deposit from the sperm donor. I added up the $$ and somehow, the unemployed jerk managed to come up with $1741 since we were at court in February. I have gotten multiple deposits, some of which were obviously from his unemployment, but others were larger amounts. I know one of them was his income tax. I don't know, nor do I care where the others came from. I just know that he came up with what he needed to and I can buy my daughter the things she needs for camp this summer thanks to this extra bit of money.
It's amazing how he can dig money out of his butt when he is threatened with jail time.
It's amazing how he can dig money out of his butt when he is threatened with jail time.